Have you showered recently? If so, you probably don't, unless you don't wear deodorant or something.
People on here probably don't want to be neofriends on site, just because this is a cheating website and we don't want to get in trouble - nothing against you.
Don't think there's something wrong with you because you're not getting an inbox full of people wanting to talk. I don't really think that's any indication of how you are in any fashion. Don't worry, okay?