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    this guy texted me

    this isn't a happy spam story it's a sad one just warning you


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    1. Guy sounds like a nut

    2. You need to grow some nuts

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    You wouldn't want to be dating a guy like that anyways. He's needy, creepy, and now on-the-fence to stalking. He professed he "loved" you after 2 days; that's hardly enough time to know anyone aside from having an ice cream date. If you did stick with him, things would inevitably get worse for both of you; he's got issues of his own.

    "is it bad i cried a little"
    It may be of little relief coming from randos online like us, but we got you. If I were there, I'd give you a hug and maybe take you out for some din din; so accept this intention in place of my non-physical presence.

    That being said, you should try to 'toughen' up; coming from this and past problems you've had. Life is this, you'll meet shady + unreasonable people and even more in your lifetime. If you break down and 'cry' at every nuisance, big or small, then your future in how you handle things as an adult will be grim. Be independent and strong; by strong I mean emotionally too. You know as a consequence of being like this, you're more likely to attract weirdos (and schemers) like that who will try to take advantage you, keep that in mind.

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    instinct told me to say "but i didn't really cry, i teared up" but you're right and i needed to hear it

    thank you bae c:

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    @Lavendrae Honey, nothing is more annoying than a possessive/desperate guy. He is seriously a creeper. Have you try blocking his number? If your phone doesn't have the option, call your wireless service provider, contact customer service department and they will help you with that. If they refuse, then simply switch number, contact your local wireless authorities and they will generate a new number and sim card for you [Make sure you tell them that you are being harass by some anonymous person or /number] (they may charge you anywhere between 10~25 dollar for the service of switching phone number). If you know him in real life, you can always take him to court, and have a court mandate restrain order. (My roommate in college filed one with his EX from HS)


    Best way to crush their persistent-ness would be getting a fake boyfriend. Ask if anyone of your good male friend will be willing to pretend to be your boyfriend or just hang around with you. Make sure you state clearly to him why you ask him to be your fake boyfriend, and hopefully no mix feeling/tension are made. It will probably discourage the creeper from bothering you further. You can always mess with the creeper's mind by changing your facebook/social media status or profile picture. A group pictures with some good male / female friend always does the job especially a good hand over shoulder picture

    Worst case scenario, flip out and act like a total psycho Talk really loud, and act very "man-ly"
    Last edited by janikanicolepi; 12-25-2013 at 05:57 AM.

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    Shhhhhhh no tears, only dreams now.

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    @Lavendrae, You have no reason to be tearing up over him. First of all he sounds like the stalker prone type. I've dealt with his type before in my own life. A little over a year ago. The constant texts, calls, and even stalking me on fb. He even went through my fb friends list and told me who I should delete and block. As well as calling my landline phone when he didn't get a answer text/call. And I can say, just be glad you got away from him when you did. I wouldn't respond any further to his texts. There's a show about people who go through similar situations and don't get out before it gets to bad. "Stalked: Someone's watching" Maybe you should check it out sometime?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Miri View Post
    Shhhhhhh no tears, only dreams now.

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