As they said, build self-confidence and everything will come afterwards. Go and try to get her, don't hesitate.
Everyone stop hammering the poor guy, and more than half the people who posted, your 'advice' is based off of assumptions of him.
Then there are other insinuating that he's ugly...
Seriously what the fuck is wrong with you.
I would just like to say that don't go out there looking for someone. If it's a meaningful relationship you're after then you can't force it to happen.
It just will, and when you least expect it. Sooner or later you'll meet the person who's right for you.
In the meantime just focus on yourself and enjoy the life you have.
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Originally Posted by Serrah
As they said, build self-confidence and everything will come afterwards. Go and try to get her, don't hesitate.
I married a nice guy. I also dated several flavors of nice guys, and also rejected several nice guys. While "nice" is a requirement for me, it is not the only factor, nor really even the main one. Similar interests (or teaching each other about interests), compatible sense of humor, and ability to hold engaging conversations for hours++ are what made the relationships start and/or "stick."
Chicks hate to be bored. Nice guys are boring.
Sick (09-11-2014)
being nice just to get girls isnt really nice lol