Fiore (03-22-2023)
Definitely top #1 priority is to graduate this summer, with no hiccups or unwanted surprises. Not that there's anything to worry about, but you never know and it's better to not take anything for granted until it's done and dealt with.
Would say that traveling to Canada with my bf ranks #2! I want to relax and spend like a maniac for a week or two, lol.
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Fiore (03-22-2023)
get better from the anxiety depression combo so i can go back to university and
be productive again, i havent accomplished anything since october, i have art hobbies but i cant do anything, even things i liked doing...
Fiore (03-22-2023)
Current life goal is to get in shape and get ready to attempt to have a baby. I plan on getting married in July and we'd like to try to have a baby by next year assuming everything goes well. I need to focus on my health and getting my body in shape first. I'm trying to set aside some time each day to work out and each morning I start my day off with a fruit smoothie instead of eating junk. Cutting out unnecessary sugar is very hard for me but I know it will make a huge difference in my life.
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Myself and the wife are planning for baby #2 so I totally get this (except I'm a male so its not really the same is it? Haha)
Currently my 3 year old has me exhausted every day so trying to get in better shape physically and mentally so I can be ready for child number 2.
Cat Purrson (03-21-2023),Fiore (03-22-2023),Uma (05-03-2023)
Speaking of babies lol
I'm due with baby #2 in a little under a month now and my current life goal is to get the house ready for them. Toddler #1 has been kicking my butt lately since she's 2 and... all the fun things that come with being 2, on top of potty training. I just don't have the energy to deal with it lol.
Sooo short term life goals:
1. Deep clean nursery, reorganize furniture & tighten up childproofing to transition toddler from crib to floor bed
2. Pack hospital bag
3. Find all the newborn shit again
4. Clean & build bassinet and pray it's still usable
5. Figure out how the hell to juggle 2 kids all day and... what to do with them
6. Convince husband to birth any future babies 🙃
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Cat Purrson (03-22-2023),Fiore (03-22-2023),H3nry (03-22-2023),Uma (05-03-2023)
Getting a house in a better neighborhood is near the top of my list this year. I felt like we accomplished some bigger milestones during the last 5 years or so, like moving out, having a kid, getting a car....
Adoption is slowly creeping back up but we had put that on hold due to the pandemic and that kinda-sorta-somewhat continues to be on hold for now. I do randomly look into it and want to start up the process again!
I wouldn't mind finding a better job too. Don't get me wrong, my job is really nice and cushy but I'm always up for something better so I guess I'm casually looking but I'm not in a hurry to leave, y'know?
Cat Purrson (03-22-2023),Uma (05-03-2023)
Some life goals:
- Take care of myself better
- Learn healthy coping strategies to rebuild trust in others. I struggle with trusting that people are sincere so this will take a long time but I want to start
- Try and make a connection with a therapist and stick with it this time
(These are for the remainder of 2023)
After 2023:
- Hopefully look into college and narrow it down more on what I want to do and that's realistic at this point in my life
- Try and get my license eventually - in 2021 I was lucky enough to be in online driving school and finished the entire online portion in a week, and then never went back to it. Sad.
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Cat Purrson (03-22-2023)
Life goals?! Well, right now I would have to say:
- Find a graduate program that I'm interested in and continue education. MS for sure, PHD maybe.
- Establish good fitness habits and be at my fittest at 30 (December).
- Quit smoking (this aligns with my above goal).
- Live past my family's life average (like 70yrs old).
- Get a Sphinx.
Oh, and get a card collector trophy on Neo..
Right now its:
- Get a job
- Get a cat (once I have a job, I can get a cat, because i'll have stable income)
- visit my dad since i haven't seen him in like, 3 years bc of covid.
- Start testosterone (i've been waiting for so loooong)
For less Real Life Stuff
- get back into sewing, maybe get sewing machine and finally beat the primal fear i have of those things
- finally paint something on that canvas i have lying around my room
- frame all those prints I have lying around my room.
I'm studying really hard x)) I'm hoping to reach 170+ on the LSAT, finish up my personal statements, finish my thesis, and ace my finals then have an awesome gap year filled with adventure and hopefully, the dream happens: law school.