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    I'm a big spender, and I end up hoarding things I don't need. I collect figures and sneakers, and I've come to a point where I don't know where to put the boxes because in my mind I keep telling my self I'll need them.



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    Quote Originally Posted by Cherubi View Post
    My toxic trait(s) are pettiness/cynicism. Especially when it comes to calling people out on their bs. I have such a low tolerance that once I've had enough, it's so difficult to hold back. I blame my lack of faith in people and being pushed to my limit :x

    Another is never being able to ask for help. I try to do everything myself and then wonder why I'm burnt out afterwards lol
    Good lord saaaame for all of that, its years of having no one reliable in any aspect of life, I hate having to rely on anyone because they will just treat you like a burden but its so fucking annoying at work because its designed to have to rely on management for stupid things they should just let me do my damn self if its such a problem!

    Also I have a quick temper and it scares people apparently.

    I have a whole laundry list tbh lol

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    I have a hard time opening up to anyone I’m not related to, and even then, it’s just small bits of info. It takes time for me to process emotions, and by the time I have, that moment is gone. It’s something I have been trying to work on! My therapist says I’m making progress lmao
    Which is the lie ..? The mask, or my face?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Cherubi View Post
    My toxic trait(s) are pettiness/cynicism. Especially when it comes to calling people out on their bs. I have such a low tolerance that once I've had enough, it's so difficult to hold back. I blame my lack of faith in people and being pushed to my limit :x

    Another is never being able to ask for help. I try to do everything myself and then wonder why I'm burnt out afterwards lol
    The never asking for help is so me... egh


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    I have a hard time with taking things really personally and I can be extremely petty with customers at work sometimes.
    I also impulse buy a lot

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    My toxic neo trait... more of a confession since I'm not sure if it is toxic, but I feel bad about it. I get a lot of NC gifts from friends, sometimes they're wishes, but sometimes they're random items. But my anxiety goes through the roof if I have ugly things in my NC collection (don't ask, I don't even understand it myself, though I also have this with books and certain games that need to be of pristine quality in my house or I'll throw them away and buy new ones), so sometimes if a friend sends me an ugly item I accept, thank them and secretly discard the item right after. I don't want to be ungrateful so I don't decline. I also often send stuff so I think they want to reciprocate so I just let them. I hope they never find out.


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    My toxic trait is thinking I could foster kitties without getting attached lol





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    I see so many of what you guys have written in my own personality traits too.

    I'm a huge mess of different toxic traits from a dysfunctional family dynamic. Pettiness, quick-temper, unforgiving, cold, and selfish.
    I think I somehow take out some of the bad traits from each of my parents' side, and I have only recently realised that I'm this toxic so I've been trying my best to change.

    It's not easy and it's definitely a journey but I hope to be a better person at the end of it.

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    I act too nice in environments I'm unsure of. Like not just nice, but the "I'm sorry" thirty times or the "I could be wrong" in emails where I am challenging something, even when I know I am right. I am not a meek quiet person at the core who is scared of confrontation so I'm not even sure where that front comes from. But it absolutely has to annoy the crap out of other people because it really annoys me, like a lot. I absolutely hate it, and I have no clue why I do it. Does that makes sense?

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