Originally Posted by
Bacchus
In that simple situation (motivation just being cuteness and availability, there being no existing prior relationship), it is a poor choice, yes. I'm sure that alcohol would probably play a part in it.
Not all instances of unfaithfulness are so cut and dry though. I met my husband while I was married to someone else. My ex-husband had devolved into a number of nasty habits, including drug use and emotional neglect. That was 7 years ago. My now-husband and I have a life, and a daughter. We've never fought, not once. Sometimes real relationships can, and do, come from the remnants of existing ones.