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    Just gonna say goodbye

    I havent been active here lately and there's good reason for it. I've been struggling myself financially as well as trying to get my brother back on the right track because of his addiction to methamphetamines. He would do good for a mpnth, then go back to it. It's been this way since March, I've taken him into my home (which is 85 miles away from anyone he knows), and last night an unpleasant surprise was sitting on the steps of my apartment. A friend of his and mine from the past, who is currently doing meth. I'm in a small town of 500 people, like I said 85 miles from anyone we would know, and this guy somehow knows a girl that lives in my building. This guy assures me that he's straight now and trying to build a new life away from all of it, and my dumb ass bought it. I woke up this morning for work, and my brother is gone. I went to the neighbor, the other guy is gone from her place as well. They took off somewhere. I'm done. With everyone and everything. I've never been so fervently abhorred in my life to the point that I'm just completely calm. I'm worried about what will happen if I see that piece of shit come in my building.

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    So sorry to hear, Mike. I hope your brother is found safe and sound and can get clean.
    We're always here to talk if you need us.

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    Thank you Jess, I will message you on FB if I ever need to talk. I appreciate it, as well as appreciate all of the wonderful people I've met here over the last couple years.

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    So sorry about all that man. It's so hard when it's someone you care about, and you have to watch them destroying their life. Unfortunately there really isn't anyway to help them until they're ready to help themselves.
    My family member eventually did decide to change and now he's doing really amazing and is actually even better off spiritually than before the addiction, but I know not all stories end that way.
    I wish you the best of luck and your brother as well, you might try a Nar- Anon group. It's for the families of people who suffer from drug addiction, you need support too. Can be nice just to have a community of other people who know what you are going through where you can talk freely.

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    Thank you Clair, I appreciate it.

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    I'm very sorry for what's happened to you Mike. I know how it is to care deeply for a brother, so I hope he is safe and comes back soon. We are always here if you need people to talk to. Take care of yourself, times will definitely get better!

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    @Misha bye buddy. I hope it works out ):

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    I hope everything works out with your brother, and you get him back safe and sound man.

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    Thank you everyone. Love ya

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    That's shit man. I hope it all works out for ya. You're a good dude, just can't catch a break unfortunately.
    Part of me thinks you've just got the wrong people around you. It's none of my business, but it seems like aside from you always having medical bills, it's the people around you causing you issues. But it's none of my business.

    We'll all be around if you need us man. Keep your chin up, you're still a hell of a trooper.

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