Page 1 of 5 123 ... LastLast
Results 1 to 10 of 48

Thread: Just gonna say goodbye

  1. #1
    Misha's Avatar
    Joined
    Jan 2014
    Posts
    2,402
    Userbars
    11
    Thanks
    929
    Thanked
    1,994/1,056
    DL/UL
    24/0
    Mentioned
    365 times
    Time Online
    53d 16h 13m
    Avg. Time Online
    23m

    Just gonna say goodbye

    I havent been active here lately and there's good reason for it. I've been struggling myself financially as well as trying to get my brother back on the right track because of his addiction to methamphetamines. He would do good for a mpnth, then go back to it. It's been this way since March, I've taken him into my home (which is 85 miles away from anyone he knows), and last night an unpleasant surprise was sitting on the steps of my apartment. A friend of his and mine from the past, who is currently doing meth. I'm in a small town of 500 people, like I said 85 miles from anyone we would know, and this guy somehow knows a girl that lives in my building. This guy assures me that he's straight now and trying to build a new life away from all of it, and my dumb ass bought it. I woke up this morning for work, and my brother is gone. I went to the neighbor, the other guy is gone from her place as well. They took off somewhere. I'm done. With everyone and everything. I've never been so fervently abhorred in my life to the point that I'm just completely calm. I'm worried about what will happen if I see that piece of shit come in my building.

    ---------- Post added at 07:09 AM ---------- Previous post was at 07:08 AM ----------

    Oh so my account is up for quicksale, I'll like it here in a second. Taking the first half ass decent offer.


    (you need an account to see links)

    ---------- Post added at 08:35 AM ---------- Previous post was at 07:09 AM ----------

    If you would like to keep in touch with me, add me on Facebook. My name is Mike Heitkamp

  2. #2
    Aura's Avatar
    Joined
    Apr 2014
    Posts
    2,994
    Userbars
    22
    Thanks
    4,548
    Thanked
    4,754/2,050
    DL/UL
    64/0
    Mentioned
    937 times
    Time Online
    291d 16h 10m
    Avg. Time Online
    2h 13m
    So sorry to hear, Mike. I hope your brother is found safe and sound and can get clean.
    We're always here to talk if you need us.
    i love luna

  3. #3
    Misha's Avatar
    Joined
    Jan 2014
    Posts
    2,402
    Userbars
    11
    Thanks
    929
    Thanked
    1,994/1,056
    DL/UL
    24/0
    Mentioned
    365 times
    Time Online
    53d 16h 13m
    Avg. Time Online
    23m
    Thank you Jess, I will message you on FB if I ever need to talk. I appreciate it, as well as appreciate all of the wonderful people I've met here over the last couple years.

  4. The Following User Says Thank You to Misha For This Useful Post:

    Aura (09-20-2016)

  5. #4


    Clair's Avatar
    Joined
    Nov 2012
    Posts
    421
    Userbars
    7
    Thanks
    667
    Thanked
    498/196
    DL/UL
    1/0
    Mentioned
    128 times
    Time Online
    64d 1h 31m
    Avg. Time Online
    25m
    So sorry about all that man. It's so hard when it's someone you care about, and you have to watch them destroying their life. Unfortunately there really isn't anyway to help them until they're ready to help themselves.
    My family member eventually did decide to change and now he's doing really amazing and is actually even better off spiritually than before the addiction, but I know not all stories end that way.
    I wish you the best of luck and your brother as well, you might try a Nar- Anon group. It's for the families of people who suffer from drug addiction, you need support too. Can be nice just to have a community of other people who know what you are going through where you can talk freely.


    (you need an account to see links)

    Thank you to Monsters for this beautiful gif. <3 (It died with tinypic, press F)
    @Andrew 15!!!!

  6. #5
    Misha's Avatar
    Joined
    Jan 2014
    Posts
    2,402
    Userbars
    11
    Thanks
    929
    Thanked
    1,994/1,056
    DL/UL
    24/0
    Mentioned
    365 times
    Time Online
    53d 16h 13m
    Avg. Time Online
    23m
    Thank you Clair, I appreciate it.

  7. #6
    Cath's Avatar
    Joined
    Mar 2013
    Posts
    2,451
    Userbars
    32
    Thanks
    3,549
    Thanked
    2,669/1,420
    DL/UL
    27/0
    Mentioned
    1,187 times
    Time Online
    162d 23h 36m
    Avg. Time Online
    1h 5m
    I'm very sorry for what's happened to you Mike. I know how it is to care deeply for a brother, so I hope he is safe and comes back soon. We are always here if you need people to talk to. Take care of yourself, times will definitely get better!

  8. #7
    YummyCookies's Avatar
    Joined
    Oct 2013
    Posts
    3,410
    Userbars
    20
    Thanks
    1,183
    Thanked
    1,604/945
    DL/UL
    106/0
    Mentioned
    460 times
    Time Online
    308d 10h 14m
    Avg. Time Online
    2h 12m
    @(you need an account to see links) bye buddy. I hope it works out ):

  9. #8
    Teakwood's Avatar
    Joined
    Feb 2012
    Posts
    536
    Userbars
    26
    Thanks
    2,301
    Thanked
    646/326
    DL/UL
    39/0
    Mentioned
    109 times
    Time Online
    37d 6h 28m
    Avg. Time Online
    14m
    I hope everything works out with your brother, and you get him back safe and sound man.

  10. #9
    Misha's Avatar
    Joined
    Jan 2014
    Posts
    2,402
    Userbars
    11
    Thanks
    929
    Thanked
    1,994/1,056
    DL/UL
    24/0
    Mentioned
    365 times
    Time Online
    53d 16h 13m
    Avg. Time Online
    23m
    Thank you everyone. Love ya

  11. #10

    Joined
    Mar 2014
    Posts
    1,389
    Userbars
    14
    Thanks
    1,217
    Thanked
    3,909/1,161
    DL/UL
    84/1
    Mentioned
    533 times
    Time Online
    134d 9h 16m
    Avg. Time Online
    1h N/A
    That's shit man. I hope it all works out for ya. You're a good dude, just can't catch a break unfortunately.
    Part of me thinks you've just got the wrong people around you. It's none of my business, but it seems like aside from you always having medical bills, it's the people around you causing you issues. But it's none of my business.

    We'll all be around if you need us man. Keep your chin up, you're still a hell of a trooper.

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •