Why being a good guy doesnt attract girls for me?

[leetnerd]

I'm not only nice guy but a kind person with other people around me. I see that girls don't like nice guys like me. They like hardcore guys who talk shit, do shit, and other shits.

[j03]

Have you tried the library?

[Poem]

I like nice guys! Keep being who you are and you'll find somebody who appreciates it in due time!

[Fleur]

You're generalising way too much... Do you expect to get laid if you're nice to someone? Not all females are into "hardcore guys who talk shit", idk where you base these assumptions off of, but they're definitely not true lol.

If you want to go out on a date with someone, just be up front about it. If they reject, then just accept it and move on.

There are a few guys (especially those who use online dating sites) who think they're nice, but give off creepy vibes. Maybe that's what some females see you as? Idk.

If you're being nice for the sole reason of getting laid then... Don't expect much to happen lol.

[Allegra]

Being a 'nice person' doesn't automatically mean girls should be into you. Agreed with @(you need an account to see links) you're generalising hugely. Be yourself and have something else to offer other than being 'nice' i.e. connect with a girl about things you love/are good at/interested in. This sounds like the typical 'friend zone' crap to me.

[Demetri]

Not true. Can confirm.. Nice guy, gets girls

[|2eap]

well are you nice guying in the friend zone or what?
sounds to me like you wont take that push to be outside of the frien**one.

You gotta be a man bro.
Grab your balls and step it up, women dont wanna be with a softy nice guy.
They want a guy who symbolizes power, safety, satisfaction.
That doesnt mean become an asshole, theres a huge difference between confidence and cocky.
and you can still be a nice guy.

[Allegra]

well are you nice guying in the friend zone or what?
sounds to me like you wont take that push to be outside of the frien**one.

You gotta be a man bro.
Grab your balls and step it up, women dont wanna be with a softy nice guy.
They want a guy who symbolizes power, safety, satisfaction.
That doesnt mean become an asshole, theres a huge difference between confidence and cocky.
and you can still be a nice guy.

Last part is actually so true, I think OP is confusing 'assholes' with guys who are just confident.

[Zhukov]

Being nice does attract people, but it's not enough to just be nice, you have to be confident and fun as well. The reason you might see so many girls go for guys who "talk shit, do shit, and other shits." is because those guys are outgoing and confident in themselves, and thus more fun to be around than someone who isn't. However, I'd also wager that those guys probably aren't trying as hard as you are to woo any one girl. Contrary to romantic comedies and sitcoms, constantly pursuing one girl will not make her fall in love with you. That gets annoying to the girl who's made it clear that she isn't interested in you romantically. The more you try to push a relationship with a girl who isn't interested, the less your odds become of getting into a relationship with her. The best thing you can do in a situation like that is back off, relax, and reassess.

[|2eap]

Being nice does attract people, but it's not enough to just be nice, you have to be confident and fun as well. The reason you might see so many girls go for guys who "talk shit, do shit, and other shits." is because those guys are outgoing and confident in themselves, and thus more fun to be around than someone who isn't. However, I'd also wager that those guys probably aren't trying as hard as you are to woo any one girl. Contrary to romantic comedies and sitcoms, constantly pursuing one girl will not make her fall in love with you. That gets annoying to the girl who's made it clear that she isn't interested in you romantically. The more you try to push a relationship with a girl who isn't interested, the less your odds become of getting into a relationship with her. The best thing you can do in a situation like that is back off, relax, and reassess.

or you can buy her love