I like the Xbox controller better than the PS3 controller. I think the PS3 controller just reminds me of the older Playstations which I still have lying around somewhere. Which is why Xbox seems more modern to me ^.^
But I guess PS3 is better for everything else.
I own both consoles and I play on the ps3 99% of the time. And I've played on the xbox a fair amount to say that the competition there is practically the same as ps3 (unless you're talking about mlg, in that case I dunno). I actually noticed that theres a lot of worse people on xbox, and a lot of really good people on xbox. Ps3 has more of a 'in the middle' community. Also the squeekers on xbox. oh god.