Haha I definitely won't hit her, I think she feels left out sometimes because she always hangs out with her boyfriend, but I mean she doesn't try to balance out time between him and friends so it's her own fault. She could also be jealous my friend Tyler and I got really close recently, because they used to be best friends. Meh whatever I mean if she wants to piss off the few friends she actually has she can go right aheadOriginally Posted by boardwalks
Sounds like she's hecka threatened.
Not a nice thing to do, for sure.
Reminder that you guys don't need to have someone in your life that is making you feel uncomfortable like that or because you feel the responsibility to. It's nicer in the long run to end relationships like that, for all parties involved.
People in general have a bitchyness gene, not just girls but it does seem to come out more in triangle or small knit friend groups for sure.
I'd suggest not hitting her, as tempting as it may be
All that is totally understandable, feeling left out and jealous, but there is a good and a not so good way of dealing and it seems she has chosen the not so good route.
Have you guys talked to her about it?
I know you have been super nice and inclusive despite all this, which is great of you. But still.
All of my friends will do whatever it takes to avoid confrontation. If one friend is mad at another, instead of telling them, they'll just complain to someone else. So nobody is really going to say something to her except for maybe me. I'll probably just ask her if she has a problem with me the next time we hang out
This is sorta irrelevant now, but like @(you need an account to see links) and @(you need an account to see links) were saying, punching or shoving someone does help sometimes. I did it a few times in middle school and they didn't fuck with this nerd again#badass
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Hm I don't know, I don't know how much it would solve and I'd probably just get in trouble.This is sorta irrelevant now, but like @(you need an account to see links) and @(you need an account to see links) were saying, punching or shoving someone does help sometimes. I did it a few times in middle school and they didn't fuck with this nerd again
Probably not much, in your case. For me it worked cause this dumbass knows he did something that he could get in trouble for too.
Most of my friends are convinced they do no wrong and don't deserve to get in trouble for anything so there's really not much I can do. If I hit her I'd get in trouble, if I confront her she'll just deny it and apologize. I'll probably confront her just so she doesn't think I'm an idiot and I don't know what she's saying
I don't usually have this problem with my irl girlfriends because all of us tend to be fairly nerdyBut if anyone - guy or girl - was to try to start beef with me, I'd definitely just ignore them and exclude them from all future activities. I'm not confrontational either, and I just don't feel like spending any extra time thinking about people like that. I have better things to think about, and better people to share my time with.
By including her in all your activities you're already the better person. It's pretty obvious that she's the one being bitter and judgmental. I don't think anyone would think badly of you for cutting her out after this incident.
She obv wants any kind of drama possible, she almost sounds desperate for it, like a little kid tugging on your shirt and begging for attention.
So just don't give it to her. It'll make her 100x more angry if you just completely ignore her and act somewhat civil/above her.
^ Yup. The more you make it look like she doesn't faze you or that her opinions are insignificant, the more she'll feel like a doofus.
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