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    @(you need an account to see links) Is it a rumor or is it entirely true?
    I can understand how people here are telling you to chill and let it go/dont care what others think if it's just a rumor, but if it's a very, very personal secret, I disagree with the others in saying you should let it go. I do agree entirely on what @(you need an account to see links) and @(you need an account to see links) said about them just being even more pissed off and telling everyone
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    Did the person talk about it with friends and it went out or did shr purposely wanted to hurt you? If you don't know for sure, be smart and go talk to her.

    Wanting to hurt her badly is just very childish imo. This is going nowhere and you'll just make things worse.
    Especially with the school thing. If someone would ever do that to me, trust me, I'd do all I can to get them expelled. It's just stupid.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mint View Post
    @(you need an account to see links) Is it a rumor or is it entirely true?
    I can understand how people here are telling you to chill and let it go/dont care what others think if it's just a rumor, but if it's a very, very personal secret, I disagree with the others in saying you should let it go. I do agree entirely on what @(you need an account to see links) and @(you need an account to see links) said about them just being even more pissed off and telling everyone
    It's kinda a rumor but with the story (which is the truth and not a lie) it looks like the truth. She saw what she saw and she made a completely valid assumption (anyone would when they saw what they saw) but she doesn't know what actually happened and she is telling people it seems very casually about what she assumed. It's not a "oh yeah lol I saw her sleeping with a girl" type thing. Which don't get me wrong is just as upsetting but yeah there were cops in my room to put the seriousness into proportion.

    I'm for sure not going to let it completely go because she needs to fucking stop.

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    Quote Originally Posted by katzes View Post
    Did the person talk about it with friends and it went out or did shr purposely wanted to hurt you? If you don't know for sure, be smart and go talk to her.

    Wanting to hurt her badly is just very childish imo. This is going nowhere and you'll just make things worse.
    Especially with the school thing. If someone would ever do that to me, trust me, I'd do all I can to get them expelled. It's just stupid.
    No, the girl that told my roommate is not anyone I would consider her friend. Very much just an acquaintances.
    So yes she did purposely try to use it to damage my reputation.

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    I'm about 63% sure killing someone is illegal so I'm going to put that in the too far area.
    There is a boy here in town, who said he'd love me forever...Who thought forever could be severed. By the sharp knife.. Of a short life.

    Up on the hill across the blue lake,
    That's where I had my first heart break
    I still remember how it all changed
    My father said
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    See heaven's got a plan for you

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    Haters gonna hate.
    So let 'em hate.

    Live for the haters.


    ^^ Thanks to Menine for the icon & Gremlin for this userbar!

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    Just buy a dildo and fuck her in the ass.

    /thread

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    Re: How far is going too far...

    Quote Originally Posted by Crow View Post
    Haters gonna hate.
    So let 'em hate.

    Live for the haters.
    Is that an excuse to do stupid shit like this..? The "haters"?

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    Gosh... I wonder what she said to get you THAT mad - I kind of think everything's going too far too ! Let some time goes by because you decide anything...

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    Wow,
    If someone tried to ruin my reputation with something very personal, I wouldn't do 1,2,3 or 4 to be honest.
    I would first talk to them, even if they give me the 'stupid' face, and warn them that I know stuff about them too, and if they continue they will see the consequences.
    The threatening should be enough, no need hopefully to actually carry it through.
    FB, twitter, etc. accounts can be rebuilt, fixed, so that's nothing big.

    But you could let her boyfriend somehow know what she did (text, on his FB message, etc) that' would surely lead to a very uncomfortable conversation for her.

    Long story short, I wouldn't touch her accounts, I'd warn her, and /or let her boyfriend know-you know kinda like punch where it hurts the most- her bf.

    Although that would be my very, very, very last resort.
    Last edited by treehugger; 10-16-2013 at 05:09 AM.

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    this is ridiculous, why ask for all this advice if you're going to do this childish stuff anyway? Now this thread just looks like a way to show off what you plan to do or something -__- if you're not going to listen to what every post on here has said, close the thread. It's a waste.

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