Synth Salazzle (05-26-2017)
@(you need an account to see links) arguing only gets threads locked if there's rudeness and drama. This is hardly arguing. It's a debate lol
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Synth Salazzle (05-26-2017)
Looking at the data in the survey, I don't see how you're saying they don't have close alignment between the statistics of discrimination and suicide.Based on prior research and the findings of this report, we find that mental health factors and experiences of harassment, discrimination, violence and rejection may interact to
produce a marked vulnerability to suicidal behavior in transgender and gender non-conforming individuals.
A higher than average prevalence of lifetime suicide attempts was consistently found among NTDS respondents who reported that they had been harassed, bullied, or assaulted in school by other students and/or teachers due to anti-transgender biasIn contrast, the prevalence of suicide attempts was elevated among respondents who reported experiencing rejection, disruption, or abuse by family members or close friends because of anti-transgender bias.Respondents who reported having negative experiences related to obtaining medical care as a transgender or gender non-conforming person also reported an elevated prevalence of lifetime suicide attempts (see Table 18). Sixty percent of respondents who said they had been refused medical care because of anti-transgender bias reported a lifetime suicide attempt.an elevated prevalence of lifetime suicide attempts was consistently found among respondents who reported negative work experiences related to anti-transgender bias.Of the types of discrimination asked about, housing discrimination was the only aspect where it did not include elevated prevalence of suicide attempts. School, work, friends/family, medical care and law enforcement all indicated higher prevalence than the average. The text itself says both mental health (such as depression, which can be the result of discrimination...) and discrimination are the key factors they found. As such, I'm not sure what you mean when you say that the rates don't coincide. The evidence you've provided quite clearly states otherwise.Respondents who reported having negative experiences with law enforcement officers commonly reported having attempted suicide
athron (05-26-2017),Clair (06-03-2017),Synth Salazzle (05-26-2017)
The study itself makes it very clear.
In other words, bigotry doesn't appear to have a strong correlation to suicide attempts. Perceived bigotry may, but this is more closely associated with mental illness than... well, genuine discrimination.The survey data did not allow us to determine a direct causal relationship between experiencing rejection, discrimination, victimization, or violence, and lifetime
suicide attempts. Drawing on minority stress theory (Meyer, 2003) and recent research on the development of suicidal thinking and behavior following victimization (Espelage & Holt, 2013; Klomek et al., 2011), we hypothesized that mental health factors may be an important factor in helping to explain the strong and consistent relationship observed between stressors
related to anti-transgender bias and lifetime suicide among NTDS respondents. Although the limited NTDS data related to mental health precluded a full testing of this hypothesis, many specific experiences of rejection, discrimination, victimization, and violence were found to be significantly related to having a disabling mental health condition ...
I'll use an example: Someone types up a reply on these forums, casually insinuating those who do something wrong are fat and have too much free time. Some other person reading that post – not in any way related to the group Poster A was describing, other than perhaps the perceived self-assessment that they are fat – believes that poster was referring to them somehow, and reacts negatively. This is very different from the initial poster looking to that second poster, and saying "you are fat."
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(sorry to interrupt mid conversation guys)
Especially on the internet, a lot of people do this because it's a place where we can really express ourselves without worrying about repercussions. So many people have to hide their sexuality or identity or whatever in real life due to where they live or the people in their lives, so it's really lovely and refreshing to have a place where we can openly express who we are. I get that our sexuality doesn't define us and it shouldn't be a huge deal etc. but the fact is that the negativity against LGBT+ people has been around for so long, and people have been told they should be ashamed of this part of themselves for so long that being proud of it is kinda important.
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I have a question, and it has actually come across my desk at a school where I worked. Names changed obviously.
There was a child, Sam, in the 6th grade at my last work place. I will give as much background as I can that I think might help to answer. He never had much internet supervision. He basically did what he wanted because mom was a raging whore and dad was always working. Kind of a sad childhood based on his background paperwork. Anyhoo, child has access to the internet, snapchat, instagram, all of it with no parental discretion. Sam suddenly decides he is a girl.
When asked about it with school psychologist, he says "he just feels like a girl" then states he enjoys dolls, dresses, and makeup. Nothing wrong with that because growing up I liked monster trucks, helping my dad in the garage, and beating up boys. No big deal. Except, instead of discussing with him that his hobbies don't make him a "girl", the therapist is already starting her doctorate thesis on this magical transgendered child she found and is helping transition and mom is just loving this. Her special "girl" is coming out and everyone is just fawning all over this kid. A week after Sam saw the school psychologist (not a doctor, mind you), both mom and psychologist are demanding the class call Sam, Samantha and respect her new pronouns. Any bullying is immediate suspension. And let me tell you, there were suspensions.
Now, I'm gone from that place, I just moved, but I keep in contact with most of my teacher buddies and Sam is currently being seen by a doctor to get hormones to transition during puberty.
My question is: How on earth is this ok? He's a 12 year old CHILD. They aren't even responsible enough to do their homework. Kids are under guardianship until they're 18 for a reason... because they're stupid. They don't know what they want. They can't formulate complicated decisions, they're just incapable. What if when he turns 17 or 18 or even 21 and he realizes what a mistake he made?? You can't bounce back from that. Isn't there an age limit for what's allowed? His mother is riding this "my child is special ergo so am I, look-at-how-tolerant-i-am" and the school psychologist is a fucking moron. Doesn't anyone care about the future well-being of children being given these life-altering drugs without regard to the fact that they're too young to make this kind of decision?
Edit for the internet usage clarification: He told his teacher that someone on the internet told him he was a girl trapped in a boy's body and he "needed" to switch or he'd be unhappy.
Last edited by Lilac Tentacles; 05-26-2017 at 08:05 PM.
If they shows no sign of gender dysphoria, or actually wanting to be female then pushing them into that decision is wrong, and it stems from people thinking it's not okay for boys to like girl things, I see a lot of kids who just like stuff being pushed into categories, but from what this seems like if the kid knows they know, I've known from the earliest points in my life that I wasn't the right gender, and I'll be 25 soon. This feeling never faded for me, sometimes it does fade for people. And that's okay.
But it's also important for the child to have the chance to figure that out themselves. 6th grade is definitely old enough to know how you feel. If the kid isn't dysphoric then it's just a case of being pushed into the category for the convenience of people around them.
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