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    I'm going insane!

    So I thought I was doing a good deed in letting a friend come stay in my spare room because he broke up with his missus.
    Hes meant to be staying for 2 months so far hes been here 4 days.
    In those 4 days he has annoyed me so much!

    Last night he sat across the Sofa so me and Jolz couldn't sit down
    He picked up Jason when wer told him not too then WOULDNT give him back
    He woke Jason up again and again purposely.
    He decided to blow up an airbed at 10pm waking Andy up over and over again.
    He left dirty dishes on the living room floor for me and Jolz to clean up
    He wont give me 5 minutes peace even when I go out for a cig he HAS to be there.
    Jolz bought COD for them to play (COD hasn't been in our house for a very long time, we both hate it) he now wants that on all the time, so much so he turned out what I was watching to play it.

    Whats a nice way to say its not working out? I really don't want to upset him but I'm going to end up hating him if this carries on.
    I've managed to sort it out so I can go to my nanas today with the kids but I shouldn't have to want to be out of the house.
    I'm just so uncomfortable. Its like i have a teenage son in the house. =/
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    Quote Originally Posted by Arsura View Post
    So I thought I was doing a good deed in letting a friend come stay in my spare room because he broke up with his missus.
    Hes meant to be staying for 2 months so far hes been here 4 days.
    In those 4 days he has annoyed me so much!

    Last night he sat across the Sofa so me and Jolz couldn't sit down
    He picked up Jason when wer told him not too then WOULDNT give him back
    He woke Jason up again and again purposely.
    He decided to blow up an airbed at 10pm waking Andy up over and over again.
    He left dirty dishes on the living room floor for me and Jolz to clean up
    He wont give me 5 minutes peace even when I go out for a cig he HAS to be there.
    Jolz bought COD for them to play (COD hasn't been in our house for a very long time, we both hate it) he now wants that on all the time, so much so he turned out what I was watching to play it.

    Whats a nice way to say its not working out? I really don't want to upset him but I'm going to end up hating him if this carries on.
    I've managed to sort it out so I can go to my nanas today with the kids but I shouldn't have to want to be out of the house.
    I'm just so uncomfortable. Its like i have a teenage son in the house. =/
    Ask him if he knows where the front door is then get him to show you then boot him out literally problem solved.


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    Quote Originally Posted by scarmans View Post
    Ask him if he knows where the front door is then get him to show you then boot him out literally problem solved.


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    If only it was that easy. I know hes going to do something to make me just snap and go crazy at him, at which point I will just tell him to fuck off.
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    I feel ya mam. I think this can go to 'Real life situation' since it's indeed real life situation.

    As for the matter, I think that each person in this world is bound to face some kind of problems, like it or not. I'm truly convinced that even the richest of all men have his troubles and worries.
    We can have the nicest family, and have the nicest friends. We can create our dream house and dream environment. But we can never avoid the trials that are bound to take place in our lives.
    This world, this earth, is a battlefield of life. Face it like a warrior, endure it to the end.
    It is not wrong to be tolerant, yet it is also not wrong to face a person and tell him straight on his face about the bad things that he has ignorantly done. You can even straightforward kick him out of your house, providing that you give him the reason for it.
    But it is totally wrong to kill someone in your heart.
    Forgiveness is a solution but it is impossible without love and faith in God.
    It is all up to you mam. Be strong, and never give up in finding hope.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Arsura View Post
    If only it was that easy. I know hes going to do something to make me just snap and go crazy at him, at which point I will just tell him to fuck off.
    It always gets to that point sometimes it's torturous and long or you can make it short.


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    Some people were just NOT meant to live with each other, at all! My mom was always bringing people like that in our house to live so I know what your talking about. Its really just taking advantage of you. He feels hes on vacation or even that you want him there. Thats why hes acting that way.





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    Well you can always snap at his balls and teach him to be a good boy.

    if he doesn't want to listen then punish accordingly.

    ~credit to katzes
    MY FUCKING RANDOMS YO


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    yeah Jay. He needs to be... PUNISHED.
    lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jay View Post
    Well you can always snap at his balls and teach him to be a good boy.

    if he doesn't want to listen then punish accordingly.
    What if he is into that kinder stuff?


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    Yikes! That sounds awful. I totally get where you are coming from. I love one of my best friends, but I could never actually live with her. She would be the WORST roommate. Honestly, I'd sit your friend down and just be honest with him about how you're feeling. If he's a good friend, he'll understand. If not, well, you're so upset with him at this point that it wouldn't be much of a loss at all. But really, I'd hope he would understand. Less drama for you!



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