Hacoast (04-27-2012)
Well, it depends on WHAT do you want from her....really, if you expect anything more than a friendship, absolutely do not act like her best friend...you know you will be soon in the "frien**one"....its pretty hard to get out there(you need an account to see links)
Hacoast (04-27-2012)
be the red part of the picture above^
also, when all else fails...get drunk. alcohol=GAME juice. for me atleast also it completely matters, are you looking for a girlfriend or a hookup?
hookup just invite some chick you kinda know but not to well to a party get drunk and go for it..
girlfriend, do the same damn thing but dont be AS much of a dick to her as you would to the hookup chick...but dont be a kiss ass either..keep them on their toes. show dominance and always make it seem like you have 5 more options than you do...
if none of that works there is always phub.
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o also of course, be sure to wear the best looking clothes, flyest shit you have whether its comfortable or not who cares. and try to get attention on you in the group dont be shy or anything but dont be the clown either. and if all else fails and the convo starts to die you have to pick.
1. Just end it with them before they end it with you. (example, "hey, ill talk to you later" or just wave at someone else and leave or some shit for example "YO JOE!" *walks away*)
2. Start to make fun of other people but in a comedic way, girls like that, it shows male dominance in the situation and makes the other males look bad which in retrospect makes you look good ha
Hacoast (04-27-2012)
Pretty much agree with everything he said^
Also, another huge thing that works for me.... get noticed. Like yes clothes/style can help. But just seem happy, like laugh, smile talk to people. If a girl notices you first, it makes it all a lot easier. If you get "the eyes", youre in.
seems like me and bettser spit the same game...works like a charm at parties I have a pretty good track record at parties haha idk about girlfriends though..thats not my expertise..i like the single life...1 and done hookups #collegeliferules
ummm yea funny and honest are top two qualities. Please dont be too much of a dick though, that gets to be off putting and makes you look like a cocky, pretentious Jersey-shore-esque fool. Opt more for flattery and charm ( definitely notice the little things and compliment the girl on them. 100% you will make her day, and might get a number. what girl doesnt like to be told her hair looks fab, she looks cute with that dress, or that you like her nails (if they are painted)? Of course, don't be TOO detailed, as she may get the impression you are fruity. Basically, balance is key )
why is the first page of this thread so amazing?
learn the mystery method pickup artist
Something has happened!
The Swamp Ghoul says 'I will eat your Neopets for breakfast...'
Be you.
"Hey."
Well. From what I see that's the best way to start.
humor is the key apparently... everything else comes after that.... if you can make a girl smile or laugh you have thier attention... give her enough and she will come back for more and from there you will build your friendship have done this number of times and it works....
Just wondering, do you plan on just walking up to a random stranger and talking to her? Because if a random stranger came up to me and started talking to me, I'd be a little weirded out. It is awkward when someone you have no connection to at all tries to talk to you, and most likely the girl will see you as socially awkward. At least talk to a girl that is a friend of a friend, or a classmate or co-worker. Then use that connection (a mutual friend, school or work) to begin a conversation. That way you already have something to talk about and you don't look weird