I am ready to tell my family but I am not sure how to go about it. I mean I have dated girls but things didn't work out and I am attracted to guy and prefer guys. I just am not sure how to go about it. My family always talks about me one day making grand kids and I don't want to let them down. I also don't want to let everyone else down and most of my friends said if I was gay they would stop hanging out with me and would want nothing to do with me.