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    Unhappy i didn't make it into grad school

    guys...i'm crushed. i read the letter and literally felt like i got kicked in the stomach. i was so excited. i've told everybody i was gonna be back in school in the fall to pursue my passion...i wanna be a counselor more than anything.

    i got my bachelor's at that school, my narrative kicked ass. i have no idea why i didn't get accepted.



    what do i do now?




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    Accept the loss and look at whatever positives there might be. As cliche and stupid as it’s gonna sound, there’s a reason for this. Maybe the school wouldn’t have been a right fit down the line for a graduate degree. Maybe you’re going to need the spare time for something unexpected coming up.
    Reach out to people and don’t internalize the disappointment, but don’t give up. Wait a little while and apply for a different school. But don’t let this tear your completely apart.
    Everything in its own time~

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    Like Joe said, are there any other schools you can look into?

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    yes, there are. i'm going to look into them because, to be honest, i didn't think i wouldn't be accepted. i'm just hoping that they still have applications open because the school i got rejected at had their deadline back in february.

    thanks for the kind words friends.




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    Maybe get in touch with the school to see what the deal is? There’s gotta be some reason... they probably made a mistake

    Keep at it though, you’ll get there!!
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    I'm sorry about that. Keep trying. There are plenty of ofmther schools out there!

    Many Universities like their International student tuition so it is a great deal of competition these days.


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    Keep trying! I'm sure there are other schools that would love to give you a shot!

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    My girlfriend is currently applying to med school. The process is incredibly intense and competitive - apparently about 60% of all applicants don't end up matriculating somewhere. That's a 3/5 chance of having to wait another entire year to have to apply again. She seems to realize it - not only that, but she thinks of it as a potential opportunity to better herself as an applicant.

    I'm sorry but totally see this as an opportunity rather than a missed opportunity. Maybe work on getting some relevant work experience? Take up volunteering until the next application cycle? I'm sure there's lots you can do!

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    I'm sorry I'm in community college rn because I chose drugs over education so Idk what advice I could really give you, as you probably were in a better spot than me.
    You could always try a different school or just do community college. Or just say fuck it all because degrees no longer mean you will get a job with it right out of the gate.
    Anyways best of luck <3

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