Sometimes the worst mistakes make the funniest memories
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But Dix foreverest
Marriage is a deeply-flawed system, (you need an account to see links) I'm not surprised young men don't want to get married as it's been utterly ruined from a legal standpoint. There's no benefit for them at all.
That being said... (you need an account to see links), which means people who come here from other nations are vastly out-breeding native Americans. I want to live in the United States, not Mexico or India or Russia, which means I greatly advocate more young American marriages if they are financially stable.
I didn't mean it in that regards - I think it's great that you have someone to experience life with.
It's more so I know a bunch of people who have had kids or been married in their late teens/early twenties who regret not waiting. In my early twenties I had some great opportunities that I would not have had if I had been in a long term relationship with a lot commitments.
It's personally not my life, so whatever people do, they do. Personally, I'd wait a while for marriage, maybe stay engaged for a year or two. I also take marriage benefits into factor. However, I don't think same-sex marriage has the same benefits other marriages do, last time I checked.
paris hilton (07-27-2017)
Sometimes the worst mistakes make the funniest memories
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We were poly from the get-go. We started out as friends, then very good friends, et cetera. During that time she started seeing somebody who was poly, so when we started to really fall for each other we were poly by default. It's definitely not for everybody who knows how I'll feel ten, twenty years down the line, but for now (and for the forseeable future) it works. Also, it's probably worth noting we're currently long distance. Also, also, girlfriend*.
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What would those benefits be?