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    I've never dated anyone so I can't say exactly...

    But I'd say the man and woman should split the bill. No fuss, and everyone's happy.

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    Yes. . . .

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    I always tell my friends (who are girls) that if a girl pays for everything for the guy on a date, he's a b****.

    For example, a friend of mine went out with a guy and he said he didn't have enough money to pay for the dinner. She had to pay for the both of them.

    Same friend, same guy, said he didn't have enough money to fill up the gas tank for his friend's car (who he borrowed to take her out because he doesn't have his own). She paid for the gas.

    Instant man card removal. He IS a b**** by the way.

    I always pay for the women when it comes to dates.

    However, after a few dates (of me paying) I've found that my old girlfriends would always want to pay for themselves or the both of us on occasion. From there we would go back and forth, I'll pay for dinner, you pay for movies. It shows independence, which is hot.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Morphine View Post
    I always tell my friends (who are girls) that if a girl pays for everything for the guy on a date, he's a b****.

    For example, a friend of mine went out with a guy and he said he didn't have enough money to pay for the dinner. She had to pay for the both of them.

    Same friend, same guy, said he didn't have enough money to fill up the gas tank for his friend's car (who he borrowed to take her out because he doesn't have his own). She paid for the gas.
    Lol I think the term you're referring to is "Loser".

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    I would never expect a guy to pay. Its quite a sexist view tbh. So many people I know have refused to go on a second date with someone who asked to split the bill. Materialistic sexist twats...

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    Quote Originally Posted by vj87 View Post
    I would never expect a guy to pay. Its quite a sexist view tbh. So many people I know have refused to go on a second date with someone who asked to split the bill. Materialistic sexist twats...
    Shots fired Lol

    but on the real, the person who invites should pay. :p

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    I didn't mean people who expect the guy to pay as such...but people who specifically say they will not go out with him again just because he asked to split the bill instead of paying (especially if its an expensive place) I think are ridiculous :p

    I actually fell out with a friend once as she was slagging this guy off, he was lovely and she agreed he was totally her type and everything, but she spend an entire night slagging him off for being cheap and saying she wasn't going to speak to him again as he expected her to pay 75 quid for a meal in a very expensive restaurant that SHE picked. He had been taking her elsewhere (not sure if he still wanted to split there, but thats quite irrelevant with how it turned out) but she insisted on going to this posh Italian place. So, they got on fantastic but because he wasn't willing to pay for her overpriced meal in a place she chose to go to..he was binned and rubbish spoke about him. Funnily enough, he is married now to someone who doesn't care about stuff like that and he is actually really loaded now So if she had got just over herself, it could have been her being the lady of leisure now.

    Though I still think its sexist to expect the guy to pay just because he is a guy
    Last edited by vj87; 09-21-2016 at 05:54 AM.

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    50:50 I say, but unless its a treat one can pay the full thing

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    In my experience most guys will insist on paying no matter who asked whom out.

    They end up feeling cheap/emasculated if you go dutch early on. They chill out about the issue once you've been dating for a while though.

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    Depends entirely on the date. If it's a first date, and there is no guarantee how it will go for either person, I feel going "dutch" is the best route (she pays for her refreshments/he pays for his/split tip).
    If the relationship has potential, though, I've always felt the man should show he's willing to care for her by offering to pay. Up to the lady to decide whether or not to accept the offer. But my opinion isn't popular in my area and most men prefer to pay for the date themselves.

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