Should guys pay when on dates?

[Pokemon]

I prefer to split the bill on a first date

[I_royalty_I]

I generally pick up the tab because I don�t mind. However, if it was a particularly bad date or we mutually agree to split it, I�m fine with that. I�ve done the whole, I�ll get dinner, you get the first round of drinks at the bar thing with dates. That usually works well. If somebody were to flat out tell me they aren�t paying, then you bet your ass I�d lay cash down for my half and bounce out of there lol

Im lucky that when I go out with friends that isn�t really a concern. Just spent a weekend with the bros tailgating, drinking, football, and nobody had any issue buying shit. We all put in the group chat how much we spent and then Venmo the difference if necessary. Easy.

[Sci_Girl]

After being in a relationship for so long it is based on who suggests to go to dinner. Want a pizza tonight okay your paying. Want a nice fancy steak dinner another night, okay you pay.

Before when we first started go out he was very adamant that he treat me to dinner. But I would still want to pick up the tab. Did not feel right always having him take the bill.

[♥ honeycomb ♥]

I always prefer to split it, but if not we'll just go with whoever suggested to go out.

[Raichuu]

I don’t think so, though it depends on the situation i guess; but in general, no. I’m pretty independent and often like to pay my own way. I think it’s nice to just alternate who picks up the tab. To treat and be treated. I don’t think guys should be obligated to pay for anything. If they want to then cool, but if not then it’s not like I can’t take care of myself.

[Sezy]

I always split the bill on a first date. Then if we have another date I let them pay for that Its just a very gentlemanly thing to do I guess? Might just be me been old fashioned

[gogogo]

The man should pay for the first date. After that the couple should split the bill. It only seem's fair that way more me.

[sweetypie]

Sometimes my boyfriend pays the bill, and sometimes I pay the bill. But on the first date I would split it.

[godofred]

I, personally, shoulder the bill on the first date. After that, we usually start splitting it.

[Ghidorah]

My boyfriend and I will either split the tab or take turns paying for the other. Sometimes he'll hand me his card to pay then I just pay with mine and give his back then he tries to slip some cash into my wallet. FIGHT