Trust me, if anyone insisted on trying to pay for my part on anything, you bet I'll disappear from their life real quick just out of shame. I either pay for what I have to, or I don't go at all. Because I'd rather pay then, and then not have to owe anyone anything, than otherwise. My father always taught me, "if you go to someone's house, expect them to expect to come to your house some day; if someone pays for you anything, expect them to expect you to give them back in some way, be it in money, sex, whatever." I am not a huge fan of owing anyone anything, and I have issues with intimacy, so, nope, I'm not getting myself into any sort of situation where I'm expected to give back to them in some sort of way that I can't do.
Last edited by DJ Music Man; 12-29-2016 at 06:16 AM.