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    Just wanted to update you guys

    I'm going through quite the rough patch right now so I haven't been as active as usual. I just found out that my brother overdosed on methamphetamines about a week ago and I was suspended from work for a week because of missing to be with him. This is my second suspense now and may lose my job if I get another bullshit "unexcused" absence. So yeah, that's what's up. Hope you all are doing well

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    I'm sorry to hear about your brother. I hope that he is going to be ok, and can get the help he needs to get clean.
    If work cannot understand that, they're seriously lacking in empathy/basic humanity.

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    I'm sorry to hear about your brother. I am not sure what kind of people run a company that will not allow an excused absence for a family emergency. Fuck those idiots.


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    I hope all gets better for you Misha, be strong Much love and virtual hugs for you!

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    Sorry to hear about your brother, I hope he gets better both physically and emotionally!
    It's so despicable how your boss treats their employees, one day of business is not worth more than a person's well-being.

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    Thanks everyone. The barn is using me as an example basically and it's really frustrating having an hr representative so caught up in her power over employees that she lacks compassion and understanding. I'll be okay and I hope my brother will be. He was a rank below Sargeant before his deployment to Kuwait and fucked his life up when he got back. A lot of crap I've had to deal with already this year but I'm a stubborn Pollock and never keep my head down

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    @(you need an account to see links) I'm so sorry man.
    Just know that we've all got your back, & we're here to support you.
    You don't need to explain yourself to us (unlike your work... ridiculous) or apologize for needing to take some time, but we appreciate you sharing with us.

    Always here for you, brother, & sending seriously positive thoughts and vibes your way and your brother's way as he struggles and battles this. <3

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    Definitely sounds like you've been going through a rough patch lately. Hopefully this new year brings new opportunities and does well by you. Keep us updated and keep your head up
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    That's horrible, Misha.

    I really am sorry you're dealing with something so difficult and your job is just adding to the stress of it all. That's really messed up.

    <3
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    I'm really sorry. I hope things get better for you soon, that's so unfair.
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