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Thread: So, a hiatus for me from clraik and a little thought I want to leave behind..

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    So, a hiatus for me from clraik and a little thought I want to leave behind..

    I have had two deaths in my family within two weeks of each other; both were maternal role models for me growing up and I'm literally falling apart mentally so I'll have to just say I'm sorry, I won't be active for awhile. Not like I'm a super active member of the community, just felt I should say why I've not gotten back to a few people within reasonable time frames.
    A side note, that I feel I should say. If you haven't spoken to a certain family member in awhile, maybe life just got busy or you had a mild disagreement sometime in the past... call them up. Send 'em a card. It might not seem like a big deal, but one day it could be a memory to give you solace.

    Keep it cool, clraik and clraik family. Coming from me, this is probably not nearly as important to you as it is to me to say it, but you all are so incredibly talented and humorous, smart and snarky, clever and unique. I can't get enough. This website community is my go-to after stressful days. Just reading the words you all put out and seeing your art, or programs you've worked on. I'm so impressed by every person here, and their contributions. I'd one day like to think of something to add from myself to this community. But for now, I'll sit back and admire all of you.

    And now I'm gonna poof into silence for awhile.

    TL;DR:
    Deaths in family. <3 y'all. See you later.

    Mod(s) feel free to lock topic. I just needed to get words out.

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    I'm sorry, that's very sad to hear. Wish the best for you, take care.

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    My most sincere condolences @(you need an account to see links). I hope you get through this. It must be a hard time during the Holiday season too.
    You can always come on cK if you need any kind of support, we'll be there.

    Stay strong. <3

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    Hey @(you need an account to see links), though we all have to depart someday and those left behind find understandably hard dealing with the loss of someone dear to them, I pray for your happiness and that you find the peace and strength necessary to get through these difficult times, because as my uncle always said, and I take his words to heart to this day, all pain is only temporary. They wouldn't want to see you looking miserable, so do your very best, heads up and never forget how much they loved you.
    You must know better than me that you can always count on this community for support and fun times, and though I'm not very good with words, know that Cybun will always be here to help!

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    I'm really sorry to hear about your family deaths. Take all the time you need to recover, and I'm hoping you can get through this soon. Sending positive thoughts your way.
    i love luna

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    My condolences. Take your time, you will get through it. If you need a venting location cK members are always willing to lend that virtual hug. Take care and best wishes


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    I'm so sorry for the losses, @(you need an account to see links).
    Do what you have to do to grieve; we'll always be here when you're ready to come back.

    Let me know if there's any way I can help.

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    Totally understandable, @(you need an account to see links). I'm sorry for your losses, and hope that you'll be ok.

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    Hey! Sorry to hear about your loss, that's an extremely tough situation to deal with. If you need to get anything else out, I know I speak for the rest of ck by saying you're always welcome to do so. Im certainly willing to lend an ear. I hope you are able to surround yourself with loved ones for the new year, stay strong
    What's my definition of success?
    Creating something no one else can
    Being brave enough to dream big
    Grindin' when you're told to just quit
    Giving more when you got nothin' left

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    Sorry that happened!!! My condolences

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