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    Vent? Who are you 'supposed to like' but you just can't stand?

    Oh god, I want an outlet, and optimistically think someone else might need as well.

    I've been with my bf for almost three years now, just moved to Chicago recently from a small town and am trying to acclimate while we save up some money for our new place.

    His family is extremely Jewish, which is absolutely fine. I grew up extremely Christian, but found my own way and was extremely turned off once I was in the 12-13 range, and haven't been religious since.

    Every single thing out of his mother's mouth is shit-talking Christianity, or how I need to just understand that she's oppressed for being a Jew, etc, etc, etc. Nobody can speak over her because she storms out crying, not that I've tried. But all she's been doing is making me feel like I am such a fucking villain for being raised one way and not. even. religious. I cannot wait to get my own place. I appreciate all that they've done by letting us stay here while we work and gain some extra money, but my god. I need out. I thought my own parents were bad.

    Anyone annoying that you are supposed to interact with regularly in your life?

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    This is awesome. Thank you for sharing. I hate people who pull the 'pity me because of my race/gender/age/religion/cereal choices' all the time, and bash their "opposers" during. Every. Single. Conversation.


    I find my lawyer's accent incredibly annoying. It is incredibly tedious every time I have to see him.

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    My mum


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    Most toddlers/young kids. They're supposed to be all cute and lovable, but most really aren't. You're not allowed to say they're bratty, and are expected to love them.

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    Quote Originally Posted by teddy View Post
    Most toddlers/young kids. They're supposed to be all cute and lovable, but most really aren't. You're not allowed to say they're bratty, and are expected to love them.
    Didn't realize I agree with this until I read your post

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    It sounds like she has a strong victim mentality.
    My brother is like this. He's deaf and does insensitive things that are non issues when related to deafness, yet uses it as an excuse so he doesn't have to change his behavior. I'm working on trying to understand and love him, because when my parents die they want to put him in an institution and I've decided to care for him instead. It can be difficult to love someone who refuses to look at themselves introspectively and instead takes the route of feined helplessness. Oddly enough, he would actually love being institutionalized and cared for forever, so idk.

    Families are weird, sometimes you gotta break free from the insanity.

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    My mum mostly she is stubborn and so am I so when fights break out my dad just walks away lol


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    My dad. He's just a terrible person on the inside and out. I really wish I didn't have anything to do with him but I'm stuck for the time being.

    I also really dislike kids. They're not cute to me and they just flat out annoy me (most of them, anyway).

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    Oh god, kids. I'm the 'kid person' in this household. They naturally gravitate towards me, because I give them attention, but the entire time I want to bash my head against something. I feel shitty because otherwise they're supposed to entertain themselves, they're like 3-7 range between the three of them, and I think that's bs while they're respective parents are all arguing politics with each other and they have nothing to do. But jesus christ. Kids are so fucking annoying.

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