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    I don't even know honestly.. but yeah I fit far too well into a lot of those descriptions of relationship habits, like anytime things get bad I always just end up talking to other girls I know or go and try to meet someone new and painting a bad picture of my exes and not wanting them to contact them and stuff, I mean I don't lie I maybe just exaggerate a bit about some of the girls I've dated. I think what really got to me in that was the whole tangent about looking for vulnerable spouse victims or what have you especially since my current partner relies on me a lotttt for emotional reasons rn, and I actually care unlike just pretending to care and be all in love.. or trying to convince myself I am so I think that was mostly what I was scared about.. I should sleep! appreciate the morality check though I really don't want to let myself fall into bad habits or anything again if I can help it and being more aware of what I do and thinking about it is probably a decent step in the right direction! :o not sure if this makes sense it's 2am and I'm not 100% rn
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kite View Post
    I don't even know honestly.. but yeah I fit far too well into a lot of those descriptions of relationship habits, like anytime things get bad I always just end up talking to other girls I know or go and try to meet someone new and painting a bad picture of my exes and not wanting them to contact them and stuff, I mean I don't lie I maybe just exaggerate a bit about some of the girls I've dated. I think what really got to me in that was the whole tangent about looking for vulnerable spouse victims or what have you especially since my current partner relies on me a lotttt for emotional reasons rn, and I actually care unlike just pretending to care and be all in love.. or trying to convince myself I am so I think that was mostly what I was scared about.. I should sleep! appreciate the morality check though I really don't want to let myself fall into bad habits or anything again if I can help it and being more aware of what I do and thinking about it is probably a decent step in the right direction! :o not sure if this makes sense it's 2am and I'm not 100% rn
    No worries dude, also keep in mind you can have a lot of similar traits and it has nothing to do with a personality issue. You might also just be young and inexperienced with handling other people's emotions.
    It's hard to say, I don't know you well enough to offer super personal advice, but yeah, if you're having issues understanding how to handle others emotions without disconnecting from them, putting yourself in their shoes is a really good way to do that.
    Night dude, sleep well!

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    I've been doing some reading on covert/cyber bullying - it's a pretty widespread problem, especially within the Neopets community. (you need an account to see links) is pretty sound in understanding the dynamics of covert, group bullying - why it starts, what the symptoms and effects are for all parties.
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    Augh! Pieter! He's gotten my pets back from frozen accounts like twice but also suggestively asked me to webcam >-> Among other things... I never said anything cause I haven't been the most active on either clraik or neo... And now I feel really bad. I'm glad something was done about him, though. -_-
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    Was it Josh?


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    @(you need an account to see links) thank you for making this post, honestly I'm appreciative of this even tho I'm not a young girl. Maybe I've hung with the wrong crowd but I've seen way too many pedophilic men get away with shit because their dude friends literally do not care about girls being molested/raped by their friend

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ruzzeh View Post
    Was it Josh?
    It is Pieter.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Infamous Joe View Post
    It is Pieter.
    I always thought he was a good dude too .

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