So this ex of mine knows my username for every website I visit

[Lavendrae]

I mean, if you're gonna submit a ticket, they respond 50x faster to premium users.
But I'd hate to see you spend money just to make an ex leave you alone.

Sorry about that. Exes that don't respect boundaries are awful.
Also if you do go the restraining order route (v drastic), you can ask that the court include online communication in the restraining order.

[kathleen]

How has she harassed you on site?

[Festiv]

I mean, if you're gonna submit a ticket, they respond 50x faster to premium users.
But I'd hate to see you spend money just to make an ex leave you alone.

Sorry about that. Exes that don't respect boundaries are awful.
Also if you do go the restraining order route (v drastic), you can ask that the court include online communication in the restraining order.

Thanks! I'll make sure to do that.

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How has she harassed you on site?

It has been exclusively online as I made sure she didn't have my phone number/address when I moved out of state. Basically she goes to the websites she knows I am on, finds me (not generally too hard), and then talks about how much she wants me to forgive her. Or she talks about how she was recently in the hospital and hasn't been feeling too great, the doctors don't know what's wrong, etc.

I posted on reddit about her last week and she, of course, found me and started defending her actions when we were together. Calling me the crazy one.

It's all great.

[Dracula]

I'm confused about how you're not able to just block and ignore her, especially on Neopets?

I posted on reddit about her last week and she, of course, found me and started defending her actions when we were together. Calling me the crazy one.

If she can find you on reddit, then she can probably find your new username on Neopets again. (I'm assuming you used a throwaway account and not your usual reddit account, which she might've known when you were dating...)

She seems psycho and I feel the only way to deal with those types is to completely ignore every single thing they say. Just ignore all messages, ignore any attempts at hello, live as if she doesn't exist. Sooner or later she'll stop trying once she gets no response.

[Banannie]

Just don't talk to her, let her do her thing. If you post stuff like this for her to find or communicate with her at all, good or bad, that's giving her fuel to keep going. She wants your attention and she has it. As long as she doesn't know where you live and doesn't have your phone number, just ignore her completely. Don't read her messages, don't respond, don't give her any indication that you care or will ever care enough to give two shits about her.

Stalkers feed off of this sort of thing. They want your attention. Give her nothing.

NO CAKE FOR YOU BETCH!!!

(It might take some time, like a few months, but it should work pretty well.)

[Cheese]

Destroy your computer and never go online again?

[Festiv]

Destroy your computer and never go online again?

I like this idea the best. I'll be picking up a sledgehammer from the store today. And hey, if that doesn't work, at least I'll have something to defend myself with.

[kathleen]

It has been exclusively online as I made sure she didn't have my phone number/address when I moved out of state. Basically she goes to the websites she knows I am on, finds me (not generally too hard), and then talks about how much she wants me to forgive her. Or she talks about how she was recently in the hospital and hasn't been feeling too great, the doctors don't know what's wrong, etc.

I posted on reddit about her last week and she, of course, found me and started defending her actions when we were together. Calling me the crazy one.

It's all great.

Yikes. Please tell me you didn't have to move out of state because of her...

[Skarl]

Destroy your computer and never go online again?

^ haha, loved this.

I've threatened a reatraining order on a few occasions, but she realizes I don't have enough proof. The best part is that she keeps claiming she, "has moved on and found someone new" but every time I turn the corner, WELL HELLO THERE.

WELL, HELLO THERE!

[Festiv]

Yikes. Please tell me you didn't have to move out of state because of her...

Nope, but it is the reason she started stalking me in the first place.