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    If I guy asks a girl to hang out, does that always mean he's into her?

    I'm kind of curious and I don't really have any guys to ask in RL (and I won't ask my female friends its none of their business). Anyways, this guy asked me to go watch the Hobbit: Desolation of Smaug come Thursday and I think I'm really quite into him. In popular culture there always seems to be this thing with guys that regarding girls, they don't want to be in the 'friend-zone' so judging by that I could get my hopes up, but then again it's not unreasonable to think that he just wants to see this movie and to hang out with me as a friend. I mean, what's wrong with having female friends when you're a guy, that can't be just a gay thing~ I did only really meet him last week though so yeah.

    So, anyone (guy or gal) willing to give me some insight in male psychology?

    whooops messed the title up there. I meant if *a guy obvlsy

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    You met last week and now are going to see a movie together? He's into you, not as a friend.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SmileYaDead View Post
    You met last week and now are going to see a movie together? He's into you, not as a friend.
    Yeah well but the thing is that we live in the same house with a bunch of other students, and this is my first year in uni and I'm far away from hometown and parents and all. Might be he's just being a friendly guy feeling sorry for me and trying to make me feel at ease (I'm kind of a shy, introvert person).

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    Quote Originally Posted by Snow View Post
    Yeah well but the thing is that we live in the same house with a bunch of other students, and this is my first year in uni and I'm far away from hometown and parents and all. Might be he's just being a friendly guy feeling sorry for me and trying to make me feel at ease (I'm kind of a shy, introvert person).
    Yeeaah.. no.. If you've known each other for a week... yeah.. no.. yeah.. If it was a guy who you've known for a year or more, then yeah, but in this case, no.


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    A movie is totally an invitation for a date. If he really wanted to be just friends, he'd invite you to something a little less secluded that included activities with his other friends.

    Own it girl, wear something sexy, and bring candy in your purse. guys love snacks.

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    a guy.

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    It's a date, simple as. You've only known him a week, so it's 99.9% a date. Unless he is just genuinely the NICEST GUY ever and wants you to feel welcomed, but no i'd say it's a date.

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    Get it girllll he's totally into you, usual a friendship between a guy and girl takes a while.

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    Yep, if a guy you've just met is trying to spend time with you exclusively then he is in to you. He wants to get to know you better.

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    it depends. for brazillian girls, YES.

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