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    a straight guy just complimented me on my vera bradley bag

    ... NEED HIM NOW.


    so uh how should i go about this cause like
    im not single,
    im a double.

    he doesnt know im pregnant so i feel like flirting with him would be false advertising


    I NEED HELP, FRIENDS.
    this boy is cute and can recognize vera bradley and what. o-o

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    Accept the compliment, feel good about yourself, move on? xD

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    Quote Originally Posted by Compulsiv View Post
    Accept the compliment, feel good about yourself, move on? xD
    did you read the post or
    o-o


    I WANT THIS BOY

    im at the point where
    i need a boyfriend right now

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    this is the sort of advice I tell myself but can't follow thru with:

    dont be shy, hit him up, yolo, etc. got nothing to lose, really

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    Flirt with him! Like Miri says, you've got nothing to lose. My cousin dated and later ended up marrying a girl who was pregnant with someone else's baby so it happens!

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    I read the "I'm not single" part as "I have a boyfriend", so in that case I would say take the compliment and move on. But if I'm not single just means preggers but not otherwise attached, then sure, hit him up! It doesn't have to be your opening line, but you should probably tell him you're pregnant at some point. Just see where it goes.

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    asdfghjkl when am i even gonna show like im 12 weeks and i just look fat
    my only point is i cant get very far without telling him, but i dont want my opening line to be "hey wanna rub my belly? "

    anyway update: i was finalizing my schedule for next semester and he said i should take some western art appreciation class with him
    we just met bro

    soooo i signed up for the tues/thurs one idk if he has it then or mon/wed ill ask later
    but definitely flirting just
    scared-ly

    ;_; what if he runs when he finds out im pregnant?
    ive already been turned down by someone who "isnt ready to be a dad" yet.
    im muy paranoid right now that im gonna be a single mother forever.

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    just go for it
    if he becomes dtf yeah mention your preg then but now just keep it chill

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    Quote Originally Posted by Miri View Post
    just go for it
    if he becomes dtf yeah mention your preg then but now just keep it chill
    god i hope he's dtf
    pregnancy hormones, man

    thanks xoxo

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    Jo, you will not be a single mother forever! It takes a special kind of guy to take on a girl with another man's baby and if it takes time to find that guy, so be it. Just enjoy the dating scene while you can. It can be lots of fun.

    Your guy sounds special anyway since he knew what kind of purse you have. Just take it slow with him and don't rush in to anything. Try not to get too attached either because 3/4 of guys will run for the hills when they find out the girl they are interested in/dating is pregnant. It sucks but what can you do? :/

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