What do you consider unforgivable in a relationship?

[460097]

I think the absolute nono is cheating?

[Shiver]

Spending my entire savings.
And then spending the half I had built back up.

I favor my hard-earned money over love, I suppose.

[Mindfang]

my past relationships have been shitty like filled w serious emotional abuse/manipulation/some sexual abuse but because of it im much wiser to that sort of bs, so if they cheated or showed any signs of emotionally abusive shit or tried to pressure me into sex, id be like nah chief, out the fuckin door you go

im talking what my exes did like threatening suicide because im talking to someone they dont like (or... over literally everything i did that they didnt like even a little, as my last ex did) or guilt tripping me for doing things that make me happy or anything. thats where i draw the line.
cheating too. dont give a shit what the circumstances are, if you dip your wick in another person youre outta here
and yeah physical abuse. if you swing at me with full intent of doing me an injury then bitch bye

i guess im lucky because ive pretty much sworn off relationships for now in favour of fwbs, so cheating wouldnt be an issue because wed all be sleepin around anyway. the rest still stands though i am having none of that even from a friend

[Benny]

Cheating for sure. I don't care if it's just a "one time one night stand." I'm lucky I've never been cheated on (that I know of lol..) but I personally care about monogamy a lot and need to be with someone that takes it as seriously as I do

Also if she ever lays a hands on me, physical abuse-wise. I despise violence, and women who believe it's OK to hit men just because they're not as "strong" as us. It's not about the pain, it's about the blatant lack of respect. That would lead to an immediate breakup.

[firehawk]

besides cheating ppl who are abusive and also ppl who are jealous and check their partners phone and stalk them etc

[Water]

Eating my pizza

[Unfounded]

Cheating is the worst and is unforgivable.

Lying is bad, but can be worked on.

[Rosa]

Cheating and probably gossiping about me.

[guppy breeder]

wow all these post about cheating yea it bad. but it can be forgiven, hell if my SO was upfront with me and said she wanted to bone another guy, my first response would be can i watch? or find me a girl and we can have group sex. but then again im dif like mentally dif i dont think like others. i can forgive almost anything unless you tried to murder me then id step away.

lie can be worked on, and have been worked on in my relationship.
jelousy is a big no-no but can be worked on.
telling me who i can and cant talk to does not fly with me what so ever i will talk to who i want. other than that the little shit dont bug me

[AskJeeves]

I consider lying to be a deal breaker.

I don't much like the idea of cheating, but if it happened as a slip up and bad judgement and you come to me, I think it can be patched up.

If you hide it from me, and I find out, that's another story.

Just don't lie at all, because seriously, when you lie over dumb shit, how am I ever supposed to trust you?