What do you consider unforgivable in a relationship?

[Sociopath]

I wouldn't care if my partner was seeing other people for sexual purposes. (I have no interest in such matters but I understand others do) I don't believe humans are a monogamous species so if my husband (or wife for that matter) wanted to sleep around I'd be ok with that. However...purely sexual. Once there's feelings forget it end it or leave. I like Jada Smith's quote:


“I’ve always told Will, ‘You can do whatever you want as long as you can look at yourself in the mirror and be okay,”. As long as I'm the person you have the
life with, have the house with, etc I'm fine.


Probably things that would be unforgivable would be physical abuse..don't fucking touch me. I'd also leave if a baby came from one of those sexual encounters. I'm not interested in kids so convince her to get rid of it or get lost.

[Raj]

This is truth, but the thing that bothers me about it, if the girl feels unloved/ unappreciated then why drag it out to the point of cheating? Which leads me to think they would be gold-digging. Sometimes its ruthless, they do it for someone there, but in return they are pushing away the very person that are there. They sometimes push them away when they feel unappreciated, in a relationship communication is key. If your girl seems down, find out what it is. If there has to be secrets and shady shit going on, I'm sorry brotha. It's not gonna work.


Some girls cheat, not cuz they dont feel loved at times, sometimes they do. Another reason would be that they never loved em. I mean put yourself in the shoes, why would you cheat if you were to cheat?
1.) you didnt really like them like you say/ think you do.
2.) your in it for someone there/ their money
3.) relationships die, but never an excuse to cheat. End it, and move on.

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real talk tho man.

[|2eap]

You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to |2eap again.

real talk tho man.

Real recognize real bro

glad you got it on lock, keep stuntin stunna

[Raj]

Real recognize real bro

glad you got it on lock, keep stuntin stunna

i understood some of those words hahaha

[futoss]

Unforgivable for me would be any type of abuse, cheating, stealing, etc.. there could be so many things.

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[Leah]

Abuse. Towards myself, towards my children (obviously I don't have any right now, but y'know) and I don't mean just physical abuse. Emotional abuse is the same situation, and maybe in some situations worse. My ex boyfriend was an emotional abuser as he was dealing with some demons of his own and he liked to take it out on me. We're on good terms and he has apologized for his actions, but I don't think I can ever truly forgive him.

About the cheating thing - it's not a shameful thing to be sexually attracted and want to be with someone else physically when you're in a relationship. It's just that society has made it seem that way (in my opinion, of course!). If you are open and honest with your partner, it shouldn't be an issue. While I wouldn't say I have an "open" relationship with my boyfriend, we both understand it's perfectly okay if the other party wants to be involved physically with someone else. We have our rules, but the main one is pretty much what @(you need an account to see links) said: if you know that I'm the one you'll be coming home to at the end of the day (figuratively of course haha), then we're fine. But trust and honesty are key in that situation. You can still cheat on someone in a open relationship.

[Elmo]

Cheating with a close friend definitely. I don't think I could forgive after cheating but I have done it in the past so know that people can make mistakes. But I also think if you cheat you're not 100% happy within that relationship so maybe it's not worth it.

A major lie would do it for me, like something major they have kept from you.

[musemfire]

Cheating - I got cheated once and it is not a good thing to happen. I got terribly sad, I felt like trash cuz I couldn't give the person I loved the love she wanted :/



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[wrath]

Attempting to change who I am. Core fundamentals do not change for others. They have tried, they have failed. Someone that claims to love you but attempts to change you in every way doesn't love you, but rather the person they envision you to be. It's a deal breaker. I am who I am. If you do not appreciate it, do not encroach upon my life and my values or ideals.
@(you need an account to see links) loves me for who I am. I love her for this reason above all else.

[Air]

Pooping with the door open.
I s2g I will walk away.

GIRL OR GUY DOESNT MATTER, CLOSE THE DOOR.





no but really if you swing at me/anyone important to me/cheating/whoring around in general, i will leave your ass. i don't have time to mope around feeling sorry for myself for believing in you/wasting time on you.

but otherwise close the door and don't be a whore.
yayyyy.