What do you consider unforgivable in a relationship?

[Meagan]

Physical abuse or emotional abuse towards my children or myself.


I think I could look past cheating, depending on the circumstances. Like right now my partner and I have a two year old and I'm due with our second any day now. He's in another state training, we've not any had sexual relations in a while because distance and I have SPD. I would be more understanding if he did, livid, but we've got two children. I'd want exhaust all means before giving up. But of course my kids come first so if it became a unhealthy environment I'd have no problem throwing the towel.

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Physical abuse or emotional abuse towards my children or myself.


I think I could look past cheating, depending on the circumstances. Like right now my partner and I have a two year old and I'm due with our second any day now. He's in another state training, we've not any had sexual relations in a while because distance and I have SPD. I would be more understanding if he did, livid, but we've got two children. I'd want exhaust all means before giving up. But of course my kids come first so if it became a unhealthy environment I'd have no problem throwing the towel.

[Skarl]

I'd want exhaust all means before giving up. But of course my kids come first so if it became a unhealthy environment I'd have no problem throwing the towel.

You are the type of parent I like in this world.

[Poem]

Hitting me.

[Lavendrae]

physical cheating for sure

emotional cheating could get me wound up too, tho
especially if he gets really close to another girl like has feelings for her but doesn't do anything physically
hell no bitch
you can leave

also physical abuse

and like in regards to sex, don't force me to do anything i don't wanna do
and like trying to have sex with me when i'm not physically ready that shit hurts ok
if it was an honest mistake, i can work with it, but if you're tryna have sex like that every time i'll punch you and leave you

[Skarl]

physical cheating for sure

emotional cheating could get me wound up too, tho
especially if he gets really close to another girl like has feelings for her but doesn't do anything physically
hell no bitch
you can leave

Edit my response to include emotional cheating, please. Alienation of affection was the successful spark to my d-bomb.

[Mod]

1. Homicidal intent.

2. Gold digging.

3. HIV.

[Fir]

Well, Remember that girls cheats only when they don't feel loved or the relationship it's screwed, that's why many of them have lovers.
I'm not saying that every girl are similar.
The only way that i can feel betrayed if i saw her with other one, people can says a lot of things, but you're the one who choose at the end

[osiyo]

I have to agree with @(you need an account to see links) , in a committed relationship you can work around most everything....but abuse is just that one thing that is a no questions asked end.

There are lots I would be crazy pissed about - infidelity, addiction, substance abuse, lying (or some combination thereof), but I would try to work through most of these.

But the moment you hit me or my children? Gone. No questions asked. No going back.

[|2eap]

Well, Remember that girls cheats only when they don't feel loved or the relationship it's screwed, that's why many of them have lovers.
I'm not saying that every girl are similar.
The only way that i can feel betrayed if i saw her with other one, people can says a lot of things, but you're the one who choose at the end

This is truth, but the thing that bothers me about it, if the girl feels unloved/ unappreciated then why drag it out to the point of cheating? Which leads me to think they would be gold-digging. Sometimes its ruthless, they do it for someone there, but in return they are pushing away the very person that are there. They sometimes push them away when they feel unappreciated, in a relationship communication is key. If your girl seems down, find out what it is. If there has to be secrets and shady shit going on, I'm sorry brotha. It's not gonna work.


Some girls cheat, not cuz they dont feel loved at times, sometimes they do. Another reason would be that they never loved em. I mean put yourself in the shoes, why would you cheat if you were to cheat?
1.) you didnt really like them like you say/ think you do.
2.) your in it for someone there/ their money
3.) relationships die, but never an excuse to cheat. End it, and move on.

[Skarl]

1. Homicidal intent.

Seems tolerable to me, depending on who the victim is in the situation. I can deal with rage issues. /flex

I don't 100% understand what @(you need an account to see links) or @(you need an account to see links) wrote... but I appreciate that you two recognize that regardless of whether or not something is actually happening, women typically act on emotion. With that little bit of knowledge, you each can easily play the field or make some special girls happy. /shrug