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    What do you consider unforgivable in a relationship?

    Like what can your SO do to never have a chance with you again? What's forgivable. What can be worked on?

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    A lot of people would say cheating.. But then again, it would depend on the circumstances.

    I think a relationship can recover after infidelity.

    But.. sleeping with a close friend would, to me, be unforgivable in terms of a relationship.
    I am a human being, nothing human is alien to me.

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    Re: What do you consider unforgivable in a relationship?

    Whoring around with other guys...fuck that bitch

    But yeah its personal to most people, also depends on how close you are/were with them

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    Yea, u just gotta take a step back and look at the whole scenario. I had a girl once i didnt want to date, she was persistent for my love.
    She cheated on me, I stayed distant but she swore she fucked up and all this shit so i gave her another chance.
    Then she did it again.... drugs are powerful influences :/

    worst mistake of my life was giving her a second chance TBH.

    but its all scenario, in most cases I like to follow this motto "Once a cheater, always a cheater"
    once you cheat once, every other time only gets easier and easier.

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    I'd get turnt up if a guy cheated on me








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    cheating definitely has to be #1, but aside from that i'd say lying to me about everything (whereabouts, who with, etc etc) for a long period of time over and over again would also be pretty unforgiveable

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    I'd definitely saying cheating and lying are the worst things you can do, I don't think I could forgive anyone for that

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    My answer is cliche: infidelity.
    I think lies and lack of communication would be my second/third reasons for a relationship (friendship or romantic) to end. I cut ties when I notice lies.

    Quote Originally Posted by |2eap View Post
    but its all scenario, in most cases I like to follow this motto "Once a cheater, always a cheater"
    once you cheat once, every other time only gets easier and easier.
    This is sad, but true. You either get better at covering up lies or better at playing the sincerely apologetic party.

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    I'm with the majority here. Cheating on SO- as in ultimate full contact cheating, would be the part I could not forgive nor ever give another chance to. I believe in the 'once a cheater' thing as well.

    I consider having feelings for, touching, kissing, sneaking time as cheating. It doesn't have to be full out sex. The sex I wouldn't forgive but the other intimate acts I could look past.

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    Not making me sammiches is unforgivable


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