I'm pretty stressed out right now. I am leaving student housing after 5 years of living with roommates and such. I have to leave my current pharmacy technician job, and go to one of my parents. The thing is.... I dont know which one to go to.

Moms

Pros:
Very close to where I live now.
Close to a girl I am sort of talking to
Close to some majority of my current friends/highschool friends
I'd get to see my siblings a lot
Safe familiar neighborhood
I would be able to keep my current job until I found something else

Cons:
Differences with stepfather
Some of my siblings are nuts, causing it to be a distracting/stressful environment
I would be expected to do a lot of housework/more responsibilities
I am treated as a child sometimes
I cannot really have friends over, and get my bang on.

Dads:

Pros:
I am freely go and come as I please
Quiet, peaceful environment.
Near tons of jobs, and I might be able to get a transfer.
I live very close to a few current friends, and will get to reconnect with a lot of childhood friends
More girls
More motivation to get a better job here
My dad is cool with me having people over whenever

Cons:
Have one cat I fucking hate with my life.
Kinda dangerous neighborhood
Far from the girl Im kinda talking to
Can get kinda lonely as my dad is very busy
Smaller room


Im leaning towards my dads, but I dont know. Its all up in the air. argh. Buy my stuff.