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    Sigh. Sigh sigh sigh sigh sigh

    I'm pretty stressed out right now. I am leaving student housing after 5 years of living with roommates and such. I have to leave my current pharmacy technician job, and go to one of my parents. The thing is.... I dont know which one to go to.

    Moms

    Pros:
    Very close to where I live now.
    Close to a girl I am sort of talking to
    Close to some majority of my current friends/highschool friends
    I'd get to see my siblings a lot
    Safe familiar neighborhood
    I would be able to keep my current job until I found something else

    Cons:
    Differences with stepfather
    Some of my siblings are nuts, causing it to be a distracting/stressful environment
    I would be expected to do a lot of housework/more responsibilities
    I am treated as a child sometimes
    I cannot really have friends over, and get my bang on.

    Dads:

    Pros:
    I am freely go and come as I please
    Quiet, peaceful environment.
    Near tons of jobs, and I might be able to get a transfer.
    I live very close to a few current friends, and will get to reconnect with a lot of childhood friends
    More girls
    More motivation to get a better job here
    My dad is cool with me having people over whenever

    Cons:
    Have one cat I fucking hate with my life.
    Kinda dangerous neighborhood
    Far from the girl Im kinda talking to
    Can get kinda lonely as my dad is very busy
    Smaller room


    Im leaning towards my dads, but I dont know. Its all up in the air. argh. Buy my stuff.

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    Elaborate sales pitch is elaborate!!

    But I'd say go with your dads place for sure. More freedom and independence is always a big pull.
    I think the cons outweigh the pros, and the pros for your dads outweigh the pros for your moms. Instead of looking at it as an area you're not as familiar with, look at it as an area that you have more opportunity to learn about and explore!

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    Quote Originally Posted by I_royalty_I View Post
    Elaborate sales pitch is elaborate!!

    But I'd say go with your dads place for sure. More freedom and independence is always a big pull.
    I think the cons outweigh the pros, and the pros for your dads outweigh the pros for your moms. Instead of looking at it as an area you're not as familiar with, look at it as an area that you have more opportunity to learn about and explore!
    So thats what you have been doing with your absence..... what series of Dr. Phil are you on?

    Haha, yea. Thats what I am thinking too. Its just hard to leave a place after so long.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bettser View Post
    So thats what you have been doing with your absence..... what series of Dr. Phil are you on?

    Haha, yea. Thats what I am thinking too. Its just hard to leave a place after so long.
    I've been meditating up in Tibet with the monks. They put Dr Phil to shame man!
    Gotta learn to find that internal locus of control and do what you feel is best for you!


    ...well I mean, there's that, and then cod ghosts of course lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bettser View Post
    I cannot really have friends over, and get my bang on.
    i think u already have ur answer

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    Your dad's place sounds way better in my opinion. And if you ever get lonely we're always here.

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    Going to agree with everyone that's posted: your Dad's sounds like it has more to offer.

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    Yea, thanks guys. Thats where I am leaning towards too.

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    if you pick mom's, where will you bang the girl youre talking to?

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    Dads bro, you will be motivated there. Better opportunities. and the way i see it, kind of a fresh start

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