thats what i'm known for...soooo
and unlike @(you need an account to see links) I dont wear rubbers. so no one has to buy them O_O
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Lavendrae (11-04-2013)
ahahaha!
did you watch that video of the ducks in the wind?? LMAO its hella funny
but aw okay I hope you feel better. But seriously, fuck the haters. You do you. Sounds hella cliche but it's true! I know it's hard to not let what they say/do bother you, but honestly... the best advice I could give is to fake it till you make it.
Just act/ pretend like you're super confident and that it doesn't bother you, even if it does! I know this might not necessarily be about CONFIDENCE persay, but if you feel bad about what other people are saying about yourself, it means that you're starting to feel bad about yourself too. If you keep acting like something, you eventually become it. (ie: if you keep acting like they don't bother you, eventually they genuinely won't bother you) There's a great TEDxTalk about it, but it really does work
I mean, in middle school/beg of HS I used to be super super self conscious, had no confidence at all, hated pretty much everything about myself. But I realized that everyone loves a confident person because of the energy they exude and how they make other people feel. I mean, when you hang out with a confident person then you start feeling confident yourself. Chilling with people who rag on themselves all the time make you start feeling bad about yourself too. So I started pretending that I was super confident, super dgaf about what people though (uh I used to HELLA care ahaha), etc.
And you know what? I mean, I still have my doubts about myself and I feel bad about myself from time to time, but ultimately I can GENUINELY say that I'm a confident person, I love myself, if I want something I can get it
Whenever someone would hate on me, I used to get SUPER hot headed. My area has a lot of those "asian gangstaas" who try really hard to act hard, so everyone around here has the "talk shit get hit" attitude and I was def. super feisty.
But now, I honestly cannot give a single fuck. Talk shit about me if you want, it doesn't affect me and it doesn't make me look bad. It doesn't make me feel bad about myself, and if it affects anyone else's opinion of me, that's their own issues that they're eventually gonna figure out. I think confidence comes naturally with "growing up" (sike, im still super immature) but you keep TELLING YOURSELF that you're confident and you love yourself, and you will become that Same shit with trying to become successful, more motivated, etc. etc.
THIS WAS A SUPER LONG POST AND I SORT OF DEVIATED FROM MY MAIN POINT BUT!!
LOVE YOURSELF, even if you dont, and seriously.... fuck the people tryna steal your sunshine
(not literally)
(unless youre into that)
(no judgement)
Lavendrae (11-05-2013)
But but... I cannot make cute faces like you! D:
Here, look at these fantastic images brought to you by the internets:
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^ makes me giggle.
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^ cute?!
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^ b/c you are! <3
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^ who would you be?!
Zoom to like 300% and tell me if the logic (you need an account to see links)at least makes you smile?!
Lavendrae (11-05-2013)