Reply With QuoteHot is just as good a word as any but I'm more likely to let that word go in one ear and come out the other. There is a plethora of other words better suited to flattering a woman and making her feel special.
Depends on the context and the way the say it
If a guy on a bar tells me "Damn, girl, you are hot" then is a total turn off xD
But if it's a whisper at my ear or something sexy or cute, then is totally accepted
Hot is just as good a word as any but I'm more likely to let that word go in one ear and come out the other. There is a plethora of other words better suited to flattering a woman and making her feel special.
^This, all the way. My favorite descriptive word would have to be 'stunning'. Makes me feel like a million bucks.Originally Posted by Maditude
Owl, you're so precious, hobbits are taking you to Mount Doom
or
You're so sweet, you make children cry with cavities.
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Ravishing, gorgeous, beautiful, knockout etc are way better options than "U LOOK HOT"
"You're hot" just isn't very charming and when I hear it I just translate it to "I WANN PUT MY WEENER IN UR MOUTH"
Ladies like to be charmed by a man who can make his first impression nothing less than debonair.
Looks like it's time to write a creeper's handbook to compliments!
Jolz (08-08-2013)
In my experience, hot usually is a very basic, very superficial word that is used by people with no sense of how to compliment. However, context is everything.
If you are trying to pick up a girl, it really does seem sleazy and shallow. Since you are giving a compliment purely on appearances, unless the woman went out to find a fuck buddy for one night, you will probably be categorized as a douchebag and quickly dismissed. A compliment is a compliment, but all compliments were not created equal. And truth be told, if you can't come up with something more complex that "You're pretty hawt, wanna go back to my place", then you don't deserve who ever it is.
On the contrary, when I say it to my girlfriend, there is a past history of me complimenting every one of her features, so it does add a little excitement to our relationship. I've noticed it can be a huge turn on at times like that. Most of the time though, I save that for right before we go out and she looks exceptionally attractive that night, or if it's an intimate moment. Both times seem to work well.
A last note, the person saying it does matter too. If a Shrek-y looking motherfucker came up and gave a girl an amazing, well worded, compliment, she is still less likely to fall for that guy than the Ryan Reynolds looking guy who is like "You're hot". This is purely a generality, but I believe in playing the odds most of the time. So remember, it's not always the words said, but who is saying them as well.
Well you know, its just my sweet side showing through.
"Girl, you're so pretty that if you die tomorrow, I'd get you stuffed and mounted."
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Thank you to the girls who took time to post in this thread. =)
Agreed =)^This, all the way. My favorite descriptive word would have to be 'stunning'. Makes me feel like a million bucks.
My boyfriend goes with beautiful and pretty, and then the big guns would be stunning and gorgeous.
He never called me hot or sexy until we'd probably been dating for like 6-8 months 0.0
And it's still not often. But sometimes if he sees me and he just stops for a second is like "Wow. you are so hot." and then comes over and kisses me.... I love it.
However, any time a random guy or someone who I am an acquaintance or newly friends with is like "You are so damn hot, you know that?" or something along those lines it ruins any chance they may have had at actually becoming more than friends.
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