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Thread: Ladies, is it a turn off if a guy calls you hot?

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    Ladies, is it a turn off if a guy calls you hot?

    Some people are telling me that it's a huge turn off or rude, and that they have never ever said it to a girl (which I think is BS).

    I said, that it can be appropriate given the right time and situation. It's all in how you say it and when you say it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by I_royalty_I View Post
    Opinions?
    Yes.

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    Why would it be a turn off? o_____O

    I vote no

    Andy's right, it depends, but in general, nope

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    Hey, a compliment is a compliment. I'd take it, any day.

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    It really depends on the context of the situation, like you said. Still, a compliment is a compliment, and if it's genuine... Then I fail to see why it'd be a turn-off.

    Personally though, I would rather have a guy call me "pretty" or "cute" rather than "hot". Hot just sounds like something a 15-year-old boy would say.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Wolfy View Post
    It really depends on the context of the situation, like you said. Still, a compliment is a compliment, and if it's genuine... Then I fail to see why it'd be a turn-off.

    Personally though, I would rather have a guy call me "pretty" or "cute" rather than "hot". Hot just sounds like something a 15-year-old boy would say.
    That's why I said it's all in the context.
    Like it would be diff if it was a chick you just met, versus somebody you know and such.
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    A compliment is a compliment. I mean, I wouldn't get mad, but I'd rather being called ''pretty'', it's more gentle.

    Hot sounds a lot more like the person wants to fuck you, just imo.

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    Quote Originally Posted by katzes View Post
    A compliment is a compliment. I mean, I wouldn't get mad, but I'd rather being called ''pretty'', it's more gentle.

    Hot sounds a lot more like the person wants to fuck you, just imo.
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    @(you need an account to see links): That's exactly what I said! xD

    @(you need an account to see links): I'm honestly struggling to think of a situation where it wouldn't be a little off-putting, though. It's just that it's a pretty bold compliment as far as compliments go.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Wolfy View Post
    @(you need an account to see links): That's exactly what I said! xD

    @(you need an account to see links): I'm honestly struggling to think of a situation where it wouldn't be a little off-putting, though. It's just that it's a pretty bold compliment as far as compliments go.
    Yea, figured that after posting.
    I mean, if a guy really wants to get the girl, ''pretty'' would be the way to go.

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