Girl with boyfriend of 3 years invites me over at 3 am

[Soul]

Disrespectful in my opinion, I don't know the background, though, but still. I'd be pissed to find out.

Yeah I'd agree. Like, if someone is in a relationship, don't butt in. That's so wrong.

And I should know. I've done it before and I regret it so much. It was ridiculously stupid of me.

And I didn't even have sex with the girl.

[Toasted]

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^ You.

[IndigoSunset]

Yeah I'd agree. Like, if someone is in a relationship, don't butt in. That's so wrong.

And I should know. I've done it before and I regret it so much. It was ridiculously stupid of me.

And I didn't even have sex with the girl.

I've never really understood that. If you're not the one in a relationship then why do you have any responsibility to look after it? If they aren't committed to their relationship then why should you force them to remain loyal to it?
Shrug, I have always done better with girls in relationships though so I might just be justifying that haha.

[Soul]

I've never really understood that. If you're not the one in a relationship then why do you have any responsibility to look after it? If they aren't committed to their relationship then why should you force them to remain loyal to it?
Shrug, I have always done better with girls in relationships though so I might just be justifying that haha.

Well I look at it more as, if they're in a relationship and it's bad enough to where one (or both) of them would actually do that; then they have some serious issues they need to work out. Why make their problems even worse?

[Magikarp]

Don't do it.
I've been there.
It ended up as a nuclear fallout.
Many good lives were lost that day.
Like seriously, your gonna lose friends not just her. Like 15 friends all gone

[Batgirl]

This thread just....

Lol I'd never physically or emotionally do anything outside my relationship here in my real life so I have no idea how this will play out. I mean if she wants to and you do too, you're a big boy and you're both adults. Have at it, Bettser.

[Elmo]

I've been in this position, someone in long term commitment, ended really messy when we both fell for each other, I had to leave and it killed me. But, if it's a dip and dash and someone you're not really close to, winning.

[John]

Just because there's a goalie doesn't mean you can't score. The net isn't always open.

[Allegra]

Don't wanna kill the mood, but losing IMO haha

[Jolz]

If you know that there is a 3 year relationship and you're planning to have her cheat on some guy you don't know, then its a pretty bad thing.


If you are the guys friend however and you are going to shag his girlfriend. I think you are a terrible person.