I use crush for want of a better word but you get the idea. Have you ever wanted to be with someone on Clraik, thought about them all the time, etc?
I use crush for want of a better word but you get the idea. Have you ever wanted to be with someone on Clraik, thought about them all the time, etc?
Last edited by Kay; 07-11-2013 at 09:09 AM.
Okay, I'll bite since noone else has. It's no secret that @(you need an account to see links) and I had a thing once. Since then there have been a few that have caught my eye but I can't say that I've been in a relationship with anyone else. Not sure about you specifically, but between spending the day on CK and then spending the evening with CK people on TinyChat or Skype (most of the time) the people of CK, for the most part, are near and dear to me. I think the biggest lesson I've learned is to be extremely careful with the things you do and say and who you let know about such affairs because rumors and drama spread like wildfire and even those most efficient in flame cannot always put the fire out once it's started.
Upon asking @(you need an account to see links) about such matters his advice is:
Which is also quite relevant as well. Hope it was okay to share that btw Drizzy, but I have taken much of what you said into consideration since that day.Don't shit where you eat.
So yeah, crush, date, relationship, do whatever you're going to do. It's no different than any other online relationship. Just be careful and have the right mindset going into it. From my experience, I certainly wouldn't make it public.
A crush? Nah. A close friendship? Sure.
Terminology is everything.
Maki (07-11-2013)
P.S totally got a crush on grrrawr <3
I agree to an extent, @(you need an account to see links) but then again are you going to let one sour experience effect any others that might come along? You might find someone who really likes you and wants to get to know you and you'll be closed off and what then? I just went through a horrendous breakup but I was ready to jump back in the game. You kind of have to put yourself out there.. but I do agree about keeping it under wraps. At least until it's serious.
PS - totally one of my favorite gifs xD
I wouldn't consider myself closed off to the idea. Simply that I would go about it in a very different way if I intended for it to be serious. I wouldn't be flirting publicly and making it overly apparent that I'm interested in the person. I'm considered somewhat of a flirt on here anyway (or a creeper depending on who you ask, heh). But my situation is probably very different from the average member's situation anyway, so if I were to be in a relationship with someone on CK, and I actually wanted it to go somewhere, I would keep it private so as not to rustle anyone's feathers.
Haha. Thanks. Not so bad yourself there
Anyway I hope more people will post! I want to hear about your LUUVVVVVV
Hehehe.
yeah me too I thought this would be a hot topic lol
I have never actually met someone online for the purpose of a relationship.. I met someone who is still a good friend back when I used to design and code websites. I would love to do it again.