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Thread: So, I want to move out. /sob

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    So, I want to move out. /sob

    I keep getting in huge fights with my parents. Mainly my father. And I feel like I am burdening them with my living there.

    I feel like I should just leave, or something. Like go backpacking across the country or idek.

    ._. I wish I had a place to go and stay at. Maybe my parents would be happier with me gone.

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    Have you tried talking about it with them ?
    Even if you guys fight, I don't think your parents would like you to be gone.

    However, if you feel like you need a new start, you can always travel and visit new places to change your mind.
    That's actually what I'm thinking doing next year.

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    Quote Originally Posted by katzes View Post
    Have you tried talking about it with them ?
    Even if you guys fight, I don't think your parents would like you to be gone.

    However, if you feel like you need a new start, you can always travel and visit new places to change your mind.
    That's actually what I'm thinking doing next year.
    I wanna travel so bad. I need money to do that. >>

    But we fight all the time. My dad is past the point of talking. All he does is yell and threaten to break all my stuff.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Soul View Post
    I wanna travel so bad. I need money to do that. >>

    But we fight all the time. My dad is past the point of talking. All he does is yell and threaten to break all my stuff.
    That looks like a serious problem... :/
    Can you talk about it with your mom or would it be the same ?

    You can always go live in another country to travel, and work there.

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    Quote Originally Posted by katzes View Post
    That looks like a serious problem... :/
    Can you talk about it with your mom or would it be the same ?

    You can always go live in another country to travel, and work there.
    He never would. He's threatened to do so many things in my life. They're all empty.
    But talking to my mom wouldn't do much, really. Idek. I doubt I'll even leave.

    Just entertaining the idea.

    ---------- Post added at 05:02 PM ---------- Previous post was at 04:49 PM ----------

    Wow, my dad just came in my room and apologized and apologized for blowing up on me like it was no big deal.

    So I told him I should just leave and he brushed it off like it was nothing.

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    I don't have time to write what I fully want to, so I'll leave you with some words:

    Buck up, don't be brash and act on strong emotions.
    Think about the long term effects/consequences, if you can sustain yourself.

    A planless adventurer is a dead adventurer.

    /Mod out

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mod View Post
    I don't have time to write what I fully want to, so I'll leave you with some words:

    Buck up, don't be brash and act on strong emotions.
    Think about the long term effects/consequences, if you can sustain yourself.

    A planless adventurer is a dead adventurer.

    /Mod out
    XD

    Well I've thought about it for a long time. I just think it'd be fun. And I'd always have a back up, ya know?

    I just wouldn't wanna do it out of anger or resentment. I'd do it to just do it.

    Like Into The Wild..... Without the whole dying part at the end!

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    I don't think your parents would be happy if you left on an unhappy note that way. But if you feel like a change of scenery will help broaden your horizons then go for it! Not after an argument though, better to do it on your own terms after reconciling. Maybe living apart will give them a newfound appreciation for when you are around, too. ^^

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    OR... You can come at my house and be my slave.

    Well since your dad apologized, I think all is well?

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    how old are you? I've felt this so much before,sucidal once every now then,but it sucks i know..

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