Does something seem odd about this?

[Lilac Tentacles]

@(you need an account to see links)

Aw wtf is that supposed to mean? Ana thinks I'm adorable.

You and Mod hide yourselves like you think the gov't is trying to steal your souls. Until otherwise proven, you look like cave trolls had sex with Rosie O'Donnell.

[Daenery]

@(you need an account to see links)

I agree with @(you need an account to see links), it does sound like she has trust issues. She's creeping on you, but it could mean she's genuinely interested in continuing the relationship but too afraid she'll be hurt. If you do confront her about it and that happens to be the case, try to alleviate her fears? Maybe a little reassurance will help.

It's great that you're being really level-headed about this. Hope everything works out!

[Iemier]

She's a heartbreaker. And a bonecrusher.

Seriously man, death by Snu Snu.

[Skyloft]

@(you need an account to see links)

I agree with @(you need an account to see links), it does sound like she has trust issues. She's creeping on you, but it could mean she's genuinely interested in continuing the relationship but too afraid she'll be hurt. If you do confront her about it and that happens to be the case, try to alleviate her fears? Maybe a little reassurance will help.

It's great that you're being really level-headed about this. Hope everything works out!

Thank you. If that is the case, I have no problem reassuring her that I would never do anything to intentionally hurt her.

Trust issues and the fear of being hurt can be really difficult to deal with, but not impossible to work past.

[Lilac Tentacles]

Seriously man, death by Snu Snu.

[wrath]

You and Mod hide yourselves like you think the gov't is trying to steal your souls. Until otherwise proven, you look like cave trolls had sex with Rosie O'Donnell.

No I finally gave it up in post your picture thread. And I don't think the government is trying to steal my soul... I am the government. >_> I steal other people's souls.

[Frank12]

I'm actually interested in where this goes @(you need an account to see links)

Since it's merely perception at this point and I basically agree with the confront-tactic, I'm just going to drop in a few pointers to keep an eye out for.

First off, don't come across as pissed off before you have a reason to. There may (or may not be) a perfectly logical explanation for everything, and remember not to incriminate your GF before she has actually done something wrong.

Second, I always suggest trying to work things out, at least once. Unless for some reason she was doing it for money or something along those lines, it's probably something manageable.

Third, although we as a forum were quick to incriminate your GF, that's only because we heard one side of the story. Take what we say with a grain of salt, because there is a slight bias.

Fourth, if it's not going to work out, don't be an ass about things. You never know what the future holds and it does no one any good to be a dick.

Fifth, when you do ask her about stuff (address, best friend, etc) try not to sound like you are accusing her of a wrong doing. Putting someone on the defensive will only ensure you get part of the truth, if any at all. The best thing you can do is explain your concerns in a non-abrasive manner and coax the truth out. From there you can make a better decision than if you are already heated up.

I really hope everything goes well. Good luck sir.


Federation - That story is the reason why I will never date online...just saying.

[wrath]

I'm actually interested in where this goes @(you need an account to see links)

Since it's merely perception at this point and I basically agree with the confront-tactic, I'm just going to drop in a few pointers to keep an eye out for.

First off, don't come across as pissed off before you have a reason to. There may (or may not be) a perfectly logical explanation for everything, and remember not to incriminate your GF before she has actually done something wrong.

Second, I always suggest trying to work things out, at least once. Unless for some reason she was doing it for money or something along those lines, it's probably something manageable.

Third, although we as a forum were quick to incriminate your GF, that's only because we heard one side of the story. Take what we say with a grain of salt, because there is a slight bias.

Fourth, if it's not going to work out, don't be an ass about things. You never know what the future holds and it does no one any good to be a dick.

Fifth, when you do ask her about stuff (address, best friend, etc) try not to sound like you are accusing her of a wrong doing. Putting someone on the defensive will only ensure you get part of the truth, if any at all. The best thing you can do is explain your concerns in a non-abrasive manner and coax the truth out. From there you can make a better decision than if you are already heated up.

I really hope everything goes well. Good luck sir.


Federation - That story is the reason why I will never date online...just saying.

It's really no different than dating in person. That bangin' chick at the club's tits look great until she takes her bra off, etc.
I've learned from my experiences, and I was naive in my youth. These days I'm getting a driver's license on webcam before I even think about getting serious with anyone. Just got out of a four year relationship, so eh, if you can do the long-distance thing, it can be worth it.

[Lilac Tentacles]

It's really no different than dating in person. That bangin' chick at the club's tits look great until she takes her bra off, etc.
I've learned from my experiences, and I was naive in my youth. These days I'm getting a driver's license on webcam before I even think about getting serious with anyone. Just got out of a four year relationship, so eh, if you can do the long-distance thing, it can be worth it.

And you're the reason us tiny titty ladies have to wear two bras stuffed with socks. You're only interested in the bewbs. So we fake our tatas, and then wow you with our sparkling personality and wit, then let you take off our clothes. Only by that point, you've already fallen in love with us and now you're stuck with small boobs.

If you stopped focusing on the physical, you'll find less lies and a great person.
You suck.

[utahclock]

[QUOTE=cupcakeninja;304765]And you're the reason us tiny titty ladies have to wear two bras stuffed with socks. You're only interested in the bewbs. So we fake our tatas, and then wow you with our sparkling personality and wit, then let you take off our clothes. Only by that point, you've already fallen in love with us and now you're stuck with small boobs.

If you stopped focusing on the physical, you'll find less lies and a great person.
You suck.[/QUOTE]

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