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    Is she into me?

    So this gal and I just finished chatting on Facebook. It lasted from 9:30p - 4:50a. We talked about common interests, life long dreams, aspirations, fears, and what we look for in significant others, but I can't really tell if she's into me. I don't want to assume just based on chatting for seven hours straight. This was our first conversation after all, a mutual friend told her to add me. At one point she said we should totally hang out sometime, but I'm worried about being thrown into the friend zone because she said maybe we could get the mutual friend to come along and play Starfox. So that's not exactly a date offer. I expressed my interest in her subtly, but she didn't bite back too hard.

    At the end, she said she was going to bed, so I pulled out the old "Sorry I didn't mean to keep you up" and she replied that "If I had wanted to go to sleep earlier, I would have "

    All I know is:
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    Quote Originally Posted by Federation View Post
    "If I had wanted to go to sleep earlier, I would have "
    BAM! In the pussy!

    That statement alone means she digs you, the smiley face at the end clinches it.

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    If she weren't into you, she wouldn't have chatted with you for 7 hours straight on the first interaction.
    I sure wouldn't to some rando if I thought she were ugly or a weirdo.

    Usually it's the guy's job to initiate the "hangout" offer, even if the girl wants to too.
    When a girl throws the Q herself, she is DTF (just kidding, but not really)

    She asked the mutual friend to tag along on the *first date* so it isn't awkward and so you both have a buffer in case things don't turn out as well as you two hope. The first date with the third wheel is the one where both of you get a better, in-person feel for the other before proceeding.

    Don't fuck this up or she will run away like a wild Suicune.
    Too freaky or nerdy and she's gone. Too pansy and you're going to be hearing her stories of how to get another guy.

    Besides, first dates are always the most casual, having a friend between you makes things more spontaneous, easy, and well, casual. The friend is there to throw ideas an ensure smooth flow, reducing awkward silences and such.

    I would be more uneasy if a girl wanted 1-on-1 at the get-go, as that would imply she is a whore/cheater/easy/psycho/clingy. Though if you just want to release the pressure valve, a one night stand is standard. (okay, this part was off-topic)

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    @Mod you are a scholar and a gentleman.

    I've never done the third-wheel thing. So I was taken aback by it, but it makes sense. Otherwise it would basically be a blind date with the exception of the Facebook chat. So putting it that way makes sense.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mod View Post
    Don't fuck this up or she will run away like a wild Suicune.
    LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOL.

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    Girls are not as complex as guys think. She is into you, she just said it in the "I'm a girl" way.

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    Can we please get Mod a "gentleman douche" bar for under his username or something?
    @Kylae
    I'll even pay for it.


    @Federation it sounds like she likes you. Are your fb photos cute or do you look like a serial killer??

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    I'll uh, show you on Skype if you're online when I get home.

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    Quote Originally Posted by cupcakeninja View Post
    Can we please get Mod a "gentleman douche" bar for under his username or something?
    You sure know how to warm a guy's heart.

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