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    Decisions

    You know how your significant other doesn't have any college plans, but you do. You wanna go somewhere far away, but that will mean leaving your significant other. But then you don't wanna regret your decision later on down the road. what if your significant other is going to be on the other side of the world. what would you do then?

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    If your s/o is the one leaving for college then you don't follow them like a puppy. You make your own plans and become independent and don't have to rely on your s/o.
    If you're the one leaving for college than you leave and don't become bound to one place by someone else.

    Either way if it works than it works and if it doesn't than you move on.

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    I dont wanna leave him though. it'd be easier for me to just go to college around here cause it'd be cheaper. plus i can get a scholarship for signing a contract to work with the hospital for a few years.

    ---------- Post added at 05:51 PM ---------- Previous post was at 05:49 PM ----------

    you know how you want things to work out? well i really want this to work out, i just dont wanna have any regrets & plus if i decided to do the pre-med schooling after i got my RN, then me & him could move together. instead of throwing the relationship down the drain.

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    Before I offer any advice on this, let's just ask the questions burning in my mind...

    How long have you been together and how old is he?

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    since valentine's day, but we've been really close friends since 7th grade. he's only a year older than me(18). but he wants to go into the army & i want to go into the healthcare field.

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    I have yet to meet anyone who has successfully remained faithful in a military relationship. Whether it's the person in service or the person waiting at home for them, someone is going to screw around. Maybe you folks can be the first, but in my 8 years of prying into people's personal lives, it's never happened.

    I suggest you focus on you. My honest, caring opinion, not just blowing you off.

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    we'd try to make it work until it couldnt anymore.

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    In the long run looking out for YOUR interests is going to get you happier in your life rather than planning around someone elses. If he wants to go into the military then let him and you stay where you are and go into health care. One of you sacrificing what you want to do just to stay with the other is only going to bring resentment in the end. *shrug*

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    i'd be happy with him.

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    ^ I can confidently say that you would be happier not building your life around something that can easily disappear one day.

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