I feel sometimes that I have given up on the straight community.


I honestly haven't found very many good straight friends, maybe 3.
All the straights i meet want to hookup and have sex.

It is hard to say no, because it feels good.
But i would like to have a relationship that isn't entirely centralized in what we do in bed.

Hooking up is a bad.

I'm newly out, so maybe people who have more experience can help me.


Most friendships that i get usually end because we hooked up and i stop talking to them and it becomes awkward.