I guess so, but I don't really let it stop me. I'll simply butt in and notice when I get kicked out. So be it: On to the next one!
A sad, crude, twisted little girl.
But that's not how it should be..
If we get new members all the time and they have that happening to them, how are we ever going to get awesome again!
If a new person hops on and says something, gets completely ignored, and goes somewhere else, we're driving them away.
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�Of course it hurts, it�s a spanking. How else would it work?�
I want to go ahead and say I know that everyone doesn't like a certain group of users here, and that's fine.
But, I try to be friends with everyone, welcoming the new users, talking to them outside of their Introductions thread and trying to get more sections active.
I was so happy to see that the Graphics Section is flourishing more!
But, on most every forum I've been a part of, the SPAM section is the most populated. It's because you can say anything here, be silly, without getting reprimanded.
I do encourage that more people post in sections such as the Neopets Chat with posts other that " wow" or "lol me too". Put some thought into your posts
While yes, there are cliques on here, I try to associate myself with everyone. Try to make everyone like me, with the exception of a few who rub me the wrong way.
If you can read this, I am your friend.
If not, put on your glasses, please.
It also takes a desire from the other party, also. We can't just EXPECT new members to assimilate themselves. They have to have a drive to do so.
I ment to hop on to another conversation, not necesarily another website lol. I quite like it here.
But in a way, arrogance is the leading line here. I do agree on that.
---------- Post added at 11:01 PM ---------- Previous post was at 10:59 PM ----------
Do I rub you the wrong way too by teasing you babe? If so, sorry. That's just how I am with people. :')Originally Posted by Ryan~
A sad, crude, twisted little girl.
Ray-Chill (05-22-2012)
Thank you both for your posts. I wish everyone could be like you two though..
(not trying to call anyone out)
But it is getting harder to make friends here.
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�Of course it hurts, it�s a spanking. How else would it work?�
Everyone I've become friends with here is leaving. And it's making me sad.
I grew to love this place! It's been the only forum I've been able to really enjoy since the days of Slop Dog and 3volutionize :C
It's really not. People think it is. The "clique" is a pretty welcoming "clique". We just have similar interests. and I know it seems like a hateful group. But, it's not. We are nice
There is also another groupBut, I don't know about them. So I cannot speak on them.
I dont even know who the cliques are really nor do I care. I think I am pretty friendly with most on this site. I just commented on this board because I have had friends from other sites come here and feel extremely welcomed.
Lol I'm not trying to call any one group out..
But when there is a disagreement with one person it should be handled between them and that person. Not them and the whole group.
I understand having "groups" you like to talk to more then others. But it's when it because just your group you talk to, and when that group talks badly about other people, that it becomes a problem.
I'd rather not see ck become a site with 2 or 3 groups and no other members.
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�Of course it hurts, it�s a spanking. How else would it work?�
Lol, this past week everyone and their grandmas has been complaining about the cliques.
I know you're not trying to call anyone out. But, it's gonna happen.
It's life. People at work talk badly about other people. Same with school. Hell, my family talks ill of their own kin.
It's life. People aren't always going to like everyone. I try to. I really do. But I just don't have common interests with some people, but I am still nice to them.
I'm going to see "The Dictator" at the movies.
Bye (;
